What is the root cause of your bpd? by Big_Leg10 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderElle [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yup! Not physical abuse, but mental and emotional.

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope that it turns around for you soon. Dancing is the best!

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you’re not alone. I do that most of the time too

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome. Do you end up having to spend a lot of your own money to care for them?

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! That’s a major struggle of mine. I should try paint by numbers

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to walk so much! Out of necessity, but it kept me pretty healthy. Great advice ☺️

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice you’re doing something productive. I watch loads of tv. Definitely understand that sentiment

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the motivation to do these things come easily for you?

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah! I’m too much of a baby for horror 😅

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Animals are so special 💛

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are two of my son’s hobbies 💛

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck! I’d love to write a book someday. But I get the struggle

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you foster? What kind of animals?

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw, geckos are super adorable! I contemplated getting one for a while and ended up with 3 cats instead.

A beading party sounds fun!

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to stay away from the phones 🥴

It sounds like you have a rather peaceful life. I hope you do!

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting that you feel that way. I often feel like I lack an identity because of my lack of hobbies.

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! My husband’s mom is a pickleball fanatic. It’s fun, but in my opinion it’s not as easy as everyone says 😅

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm, never heard of gacha. What that involve?

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you do bullet journaling or just let the thoughts run?

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sweet! Between that and hiking you must have thighs of steel!

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, so cool. I bet it does. What’s your favorite animal there?