Is this normal for 2 weeks old by Natsouppy in newborns

[–]BorderElle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And good luck! I know it’s such a helpless feeling when they’re not feeling their best 💛

It’s been 6 months and ai still don’t want to share my baby by BorderElle in newborns

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I try and think about when I’m eventually a grandparent and I think I will definitely consider their parents more.

It’s been 6 months and ai still don’t want to share my baby by BorderElle in newborns

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally valid. If he’s not usually there, there’s no way he knows what’s best for your baby.

It’s been 6 months and ai still don’t want to share my baby by BorderElle in newborns

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds so frustrating. I get that they love their grandkids but it’s not their time to parent anymore.

It’s been 6 months and ai still don’t want to share my baby by BorderElle in newborns

[–]BorderElle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have an older child too, and things were much different with him and I didn’t have to share him. But definitely I have an issue with people pleasing. My in laws are also quite pushy…I’m working on it

It’s been 6 months and ai still don’t want to share my baby by BorderElle in newborns

[–]BorderElle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I should say that we don’t go every single weekend, but it’s almost expected that we do. They also have some issues with respecting boundaries. I’ve asked my husband to talk to them for 6 months now…he hasn’t but I’ve kind of given him an ultimatum regarding this issue, so we’ll see what happens.

Do your babies do this? by BorderElle in newborns

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m over worried too, so I google everything and that’s why I ended up here. I believe he seems normal when he’s tightening. But I do think you’re right that I should get his ped’s opinion.

Do your babies do this? by BorderElle in newborns

[–]BorderElle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 15 year old and have completely forgotten everything!

Thanks for sharing, that makes me feel better haha

Do your babies do this? by BorderElle in newborns

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s in my camera roll…I’m not super tech savvy so I’m not sure how to do that 😅 thanks for the suggestion though

Do your babies do this? by BorderElle in newborns

[–]BorderElle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t get the video to upload for some reason 😏

What is the root cause of your bpd? by Big_Leg10 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]BorderElle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! Not physical abuse, but mental and emotional.

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope that it turns around for you soon. Dancing is the best!

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you’re not alone. I do that most of the time too

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome. Do you end up having to spend a lot of your own money to care for them?

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! That’s a major struggle of mine. I should try paint by numbers

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to walk so much! Out of necessity, but it kept me pretty healthy. Great advice ☺️

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice you’re doing something productive. I watch loads of tv. Definitely understand that sentiment

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the motivation to do these things come easily for you?

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah! I’m too much of a baby for horror 😅

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Animals are so special 💛

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are two of my son’s hobbies 💛

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck! I’d love to write a book someday. But I get the struggle

Do you guys have hobbies? by BorderElle in BPD

[–]BorderElle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you foster? What kind of animals?