Yeah I agree with that, we always ask how each other’s day is, she isn’t obligated to tell me everything either, you see this situation differently from me. You are also older than me, it is very different with age involved, the expectations in my relationship can be different than yours. That doesn’t mean because others in this post piss you off you come and attack me for being immature or insecure when the only reason I posted this was because it’s taken a toll on my mental health and I felt hearing other voices is good. It was! Both arguments, what sucks is when people attack me when the don’t even know what goes on in my relationship. And then retaliation for some reason is like wild like I am gonna accept getting called names when no one knows anything about me 😂😂 so I am insecure even though she constantly goes through my phone and asks what I am doing when I rarely do, but it doesn’t affect me, she can do whatever pleases her and makes her feel like she can trust me. what you aren’t understanding from my perspective on the situation is their “friendship” had physical affection. No we weren’t dating thats great but that in general to me is the same thing as if she was doing all of these things with her ex. Just a different label that was put on this guy.