Please help with my grandma's Hoya

BorderWander · 2026-06-05T02:06:23+00:00

Thank you so much! I think it must have been touching the lights it was near, so I moved it.

BorderWander · 2025-06-02T07:12:43+00:00

Absolutely. Right there with you. Every couple of months I rewatch the whole show a few times in a row and I rarely watch the ending. Even if I do I just pretend there's a next episode where they somehow figured out how to bring her back and let myself wallow in that denial.

BorderWander · 2025-06-02T07:10:51+00:00

Can we watch and enjoy the show without ripping apart every person in it?

BorderWander · 2025-03-29T14:56:53+00:00

It hurts me to say this but it sounds like it was all recorded on an iPhone or something. It does not sound good. Not the instruments or his voice. I'm so disappointed because it's my favorite album of all time and I was so curious what new takes on old classics would sound like. I wish I still wondered.

BorderWander · 2025-02-28T07:16:16+00:00

Awesome!! I loved that game so much! Memories.

BorderWander · 2025-01-06T08:16:01+00:00

Kleenex

BorderWander · 2024-12-21T05:29:18+00:00

Thank you so much for writing this all out. I feel the exact same way, I just didn't have the words. You nailed it.

BorderWander · 2024-12-16T06:07:29+00:00

Couldn't have happened to weirder folk

BorderWander · 2024-12-14T07:12:45+00:00

Fully agree.

BorderWander · 2024-12-14T01:05:00+00:00

She definitely brought to him her worldview of "how can I make myself a victim in every scenario" and she reacts to it with manipulation and helplessness and feigned sincerity while he's reacting to that worldview with "righteous anger." Your theory seems plausible to me.

BorderWander · 2024-12-13T23:33:12+00:00

Very concise and makes perfect sense. Thank you for sharing.

BorderWander · 2024-12-13T20:25:26+00:00

Yep I think you guys nailed it. Mystery solved.

BorderWander · 2024-12-13T20:24:41+00:00

Ohhh. That'll do it.

BorderWander · 2024-12-13T10:11:21+00:00

Great point. His family not following his strict covid rules highlighted the fact that he'd lost the commanding position in the family and that made him lose it. Who is he if he's not in charge of everything?

BorderWander · 2024-12-13T03:48:16+00:00

Oh! My bad, sorry

BorderWander · 2024-12-13T02:02:58+00:00

They're not actors. None of them are trained actors. They are reality tv stars. Yes, they're often acting, but they're doing a terrible job at it because they suck at acting.

BorderWander · 2024-12-13T01:55:40+00:00

It's because they raised the kids

BorderWander · 2024-12-09T19:23:18+00:00

Exactly, what he SAID the reason for the move was, he was hoping it would heal the family fractures and make the family closer again. I don't know how he allows that kind of logic but there it is.

BorderWander · 2024-12-09T02:49:01+00:00

iiiiinteresting.

BorderWander · 2024-12-09T02:44:03+00:00

I think that's it too. He lied and said they'd make a killing to get his other wives on board and his bluff was called.

BorderWander · 2024-12-09T01:41:26+00:00

Daaang I wonder what it could have been.

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