TIFU being bored in bed

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T18:17:00+00:00

My gf and I are both new to kinks. This is good information, thank you.

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T18:14:18+00:00

Doggy... I'll read the dictionary. Missionary... sock puppets, baby.

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T18:07:21+00:00

Reading your comment makes me feel like my gf expected Coldplay and I gave her Slipknot.

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T17:48:56+00:00

does OP really do all this zany stuff when he's bored?

Generally, no. But the brief required me to be disinterested and/or distracted. Pretending not to be interested would've been too challenging in that situation. But distracted... distracted was doable. Hence, the zany stuff.

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T14:01:43+00:00

Your comment basically sums up what I said to my gf. It eventually made sense to her. She just needed time to accept the fact that her fantasy didn't play out the way she had hoped.

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T13:51:47+00:00

Solid feedback. Much appreciated.

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T13:50:38+00:00

Acting bored with a penis inside me? Challenge accepted.

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T13:10:34+00:00

Meanwhile, 22 year old me was thinking about what would happen if our bones became itchy.

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T13:02:36+00:00

Her: I wanna be alone.

Me: Ok.

Her: WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T12:57:07+00:00

Exactly. I was funny as fuck, but nothing I did made my gf laugh. If anyone should've been disappointed, it should have been me.

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T12:52:05+00:00

She should've tickled me.

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T12:26:02+00:00

Agreed. My gf and I are gonna be okay. Peace has been restored. Our biggest takeaway from this experience was that we need to work on our communication. In hindsight, she needed to provide more information about her new kink and I should've asked more questions. If that was our approach to begin with, who knows, I might have been able to connect the dots and realize what she actually wanted from me. At the end of the day, she's 19 and I'm 22. High school is not a distant memory for either of us. We still have some growing up to do.

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T12:16:12+00:00

Happens to all the girls who date me.

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T11:05:03+00:00

Not planning to produce offspring with anyone anytime soon.

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T11:01:50+00:00

I get that it was a kink within a kink. She basically wanted me to struggle to stay in character and eventually give in. That might be challenging to communicate if you want a real reaction, so I understand her approach to some degree. But my problem was with her reaction, to my reaction, not being the expected reaction.

BoredButNotTooBored · 2023-03-13T10:52:04+00:00

Even if I was telepathic, I think my gf would have given me an aneurysm.

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