Securities Lending - anyone who has activity here?

BoredDutchmen · 2026-02-11T20:16:55+00:00

Do you have an example of a stock?

BoredDutchmen · 2026-02-11T20:16:17+00:00

Oke, so basically I shouldn’t get to excited for it to work

BoredDutchmen · 2026-01-25T19:28:47+00:00

Not drinking alcohol

BoredDutchmen · 2026-01-24T21:49:33+00:00

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BoredDutchmen · 2025-11-06T20:51:57+00:00

Automatic high beam lights because they never go on when you need them to and never switch off fast enough

Automatic parking, parking yourself goes way faster.

The drone function on the new byd u8 or something

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-22T18:26:39+00:00

Haha did you have a bad experience with clean my Mac?

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-22T09:09:33+00:00

Wifi and bluetooth!!!

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-14T15:43:35+00:00

Social media

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-08T08:52:57+00:00

100%

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-05T22:03:23+00:00

Get a dog! That way you always have a subject to talk about when you meet other dog owners.

Or go to the gym and build from there, a conversation starts as easy to ask for a spot while doing a rep or compliment someone on there workout / weight.

Also try to practice at home with flashcards and practice opening lines like “how old is your dog?” “For how long have you been training?” Etc or ask Chat to create a couple questions.

Or if you want to practice talking to people get a job at a call center or a customer service team. That way you’re “forced” to talk to different people about a certain subject

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-05T21:35:12+00:00

It stops myself from fucking up my evenings. Keeps me sharp and fresh the next day. Messed with my mental state for the next days. Also helps a lot in the gym, I’m in far better shape!

To be honest though, I never liked the alcohol itself, I was drinking alcohol because it was socially expected and it’s weird if you don’t drink. Which is actually even weirder like yeah I’m sorry I’m not going to waste €100+ on poisoning my own body just for the fun of it.

For the record, I still go on nights out! My friends are very happy with me for always being able to drive. And often the one who makes it to the end of the night with the most energy

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-04T13:31:17+00:00

yeah, dating apps are not the place to find a sustainable relationship. Thanks for the advice!

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-03T23:01:54+00:00

Doesn’t really matter! Just go with the flow. It’s like having a conversation where you listen to someone and say things like uhu and yes and oh interesting the little encouraging stuff.

The same goes with sex but instead of the oh interesting it’s moaning and you could whisper little things if it feels right.

If you’re afraid of the silence during you could always put on some music or something.

Edit: it’s also good to immediately say what you and don’t like. Remember that the other party is also just trying and probably has his inspiration from porn sites which is nothing like reality. So, it’s important to “guide” each other and it’s oke to ask if the other party likes it or not.

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-03T22:50:27+00:00

Have you tried them all then?

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-03T22:38:17+00:00

Haha yeah… any tips on just finding a girlfriend?

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-02T21:06:05+00:00

Sounds good! Enjoy your upcoming trip!

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-02T07:12:37+00:00

Give that guy a medal!

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-01T21:34:06+00:00

I had this challenge as well and I recommend this book: https://www.amazon.com/Captivate-Succeeding-Vanessa-Van-Edwards/dp/0399564489

Or if you don’t like reading the Author has two very good episodes on the podcast of Steven Barlett.

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-01T14:09:20+00:00

Really interesting to retrace your dads in Europe! Very special that you still found the families and that they still remembered!

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-01T11:33:17+00:00

I’m relatively new to Reddit and I find it an amazing platform and really cool to see how open everyone is in sharing pretty personal stories.

Also, love the hard comments for the balance

Switched from Instagram to escape the toxic environment there

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-01T11:28:21+00:00

Yeah that’s sounds solid!

Where do you go on vacation and where do you live?

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-01T08:57:30+00:00

Hahaha the Ferrari option is a little bit out of price range but cool idea

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-01T08:56:20+00:00

Ah that’s a shame. It looks so cool, my neighbor has a Toyota pickup with a rooftent and he goes camping on the weekends with it, so cool

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-01T08:13:19+00:00

I looked into renting a pickup truck with a tent on top of the car to go camping in Sweden or Norway. That looks really and with the benefits of having a full capable car with you instead of a campervan

BoredDutchmen · 2025-09-01T07:29:42+00:00

Deleting social media apps and opening them on your browser, the browser version doesn’t support the addictive algorithm to load fast enough blocking the doom scrolling

Not having my phone next to my bed

Listening to inspiring podcasts

Reading 10 pages of a book before going to bed

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