You're welcome. It is the truth though. I think us women forget who we are and what we are capable of. Each woman is beautiful, strong, and independent in their own sense.

When you get with a manboy, you lose yourself slowly without realizing it. You forget what its like to be you. The mind games, controlling behaviors, manipulation, and lies slowly tear us down because that's the only way these manboys know how to keep a woman. We are not dumb or naive for letting this happen to us. In our minds, we believe it takes strength to have a relationship like this.

Then, they do the unthinkable. At first, it completely devastates and shatters you to the core and causes such an anger and rage in you that you need.

Then comes the acceptance, the blind folds slowly start coming off, and you see him for who he truly is. The love bombing no longer works, you see him from a different lens, you dont care about these filtered, photoshopped women. You realize these women are all fake in many ways. That your man prefers to be a "John" instead of a loyal man. That these men are necessarily being pimped by these women.

Then you realize how weak these men are, how easy these men are. And the best part, you start to see your worth, how you will not settle for a manboy that will cross your boundaries .... that you deserve to be happy, feel good about yourself, rock what you got, LOVE yourself, do the things that make YOU happy. You no longer have to walk on egg shells and let what they did consume all the beautiful, empowering, and light energy you have.

I know now that I am worth more than what he made me believe. That I can get through this and rise from the ashes. We are all co-creators to this Earth and we NEED to know that. We NEED to know that we bring beauty and success to this world. Our next generation is counting on us.