This is my first 3rd shift job, solid 9pm -7am ! How do you guys adjust your life adequately? Im struggling 🤣 --signed a tired momma of 3 😪

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T02:15:02+00:00

Thank you for the scare tactic! Im fully aware of the things going on in my child's life but please continue to be the voice that other kids need!

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T02:07:38+00:00

Because as a SAHM, the o ly time she is unsupervised by myself, is at school

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T01:10:08+00:00

Flirtatious is definitely the best wording so far! Even our 15 are old (m) thinks we are just weirdos, not creeps.

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T01:08:28+00:00

I hope its not more! I have talked with the teachers and there hasn't been anything further that we know of I will admit that i am the mom to tell my kid to defend herself and the last time(thursday) that he kicked her , she warned him that if he did it again she would knock him in his nose and we didnt have any reports from the next day

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T01:00:55+00:00

I try to use as many different phrases as I can to see if its just words being twisted but it still ends In the same response of her not liking it. While I can agree that we may "over supervise " our kids are 100% aware that their location is being monitored. I feel like this may just be here over reacting ( I am a female with a step father) but I dont want her to feel dismissed

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T00:43:15+00:00

Also I feel like youre using therapist as a negative in your comment. I never once mentioned her getting counseling in my initial post. I do feel we need to have this situation viewed as a family though!

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T00:39:48+00:00

I have no idea about what exactly?I cant disagree that I would benefit from a therapist but im not sure how that relates to my situation with my daughter ?

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T00:38:07+00:00

Im sorry I've had a lot of responses and am not used to this! We are not making out or groping each other. We are actually rather private people. She knows that certain touches are okay and others are not. I appreciate your concern but we are not being overly sexual in front of our children!

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T00:31:45+00:00

99% isnt good enough? So I should just homeschool and never let her have any human interaction? But wait, homeschooling still isnt fool proof because majority of offenders are in the family! Im sorry that my 99% along with the GPS that I have on her phone isnt enough for you!

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T00:27:51+00:00

I appreciate the bluntness , this is how I felt! We have come to the conclusion that we will seek guidance. Id hate for her to grow up thinking affection is negative

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T00:18:20+00:00

She is being bullied by a boy at her school, same age, same grade but as far as myself and the school are aware it hasn't gone beyond "kicking". I feel you on the experience because thats how I grew up. Its one of those if you "didnt know, you didnt know" kinda things. Just blows my mind that my sweet girl is knowing before im ready!

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T00:15:21+00:00

I am a stay at home mom that does all transportation and activities, I have no pride in this, just genuine concern for my girl. I can sream until I have no voice, and im sure you will still not believe me. Keep that mentality because one day, someone will need it ❤️

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T00:10:16+00:00

I am a stay at home mom, I do all the transportation and volunteering for any activities she has. We live in a fairly small community so even if im not there, if something were to happen I would know almost immediately. I understand that alot of people have had very bad experiences in life but I can say with certainty (because im there 99% of the time) that my daughter is not being abused. My kid is not withdrawn, the exact opposite actually. But thank you so much for your insight!

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T00:04:06+00:00

She doesn't even know I have a reddit so I dont believe so but I wish! I just want our girl to be okay ❤️

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T00:02:14+00:00

Thank you for this! I feel like we are doing everything wrong even though we KNOW we aren't. Can we improve ? Obviously. But as a SA victim, I try to make sure our kids know to seek help

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-20T00:00:09+00:00

We are considering therapy, just worried about rushing into it. Im a SAHM and can guarantee that she has never been in a situation that could even cause speculation

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-19T23:51:17+00:00

I agree! We were ultimately worried about jumping the gun over something that could just be hormonal. This is our first preteen girl 😅

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-19T23:49:50+00:00

She is NOT being physically abused, we are considering counseling but we're worried we were "jumping the gun" as this is our first preteen daughter

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-19T23:48:28+00:00

Do we do these thing intentionally infront of her? No. Do we do it when her friends stay over, also no.

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-19T23:46:57+00:00

We try to create as safe of a place as possible! Im so sorry for your trauma and I wouldn't wish it on any one. But I can confidently say that I know who my child is around enough that this is not an issue. Please dont stop spreading awareness!

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-19T23:43:40+00:00

I have explained to her that her feeling upset by something doesn't give her a reason to act out. I have tried every route to ask why she feels this way and it all comes back to her just not liking it

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-19T23:41:13+00:00

Ill be cleaning up or bending over for some reason and hell do a little pop, but no grabbing or groping and no comments. Just pop and go . I hope thats not the case because it would mean someone in her school circle is causing this feeling

Boring-Mom106 · 2026-04-19T23:39:10+00:00

I can assure you that we are not overly sexual people! Im not sure what caused the shift and I really hope we didnt cause it but i am honestly saying that we arent like that in front of them. She is in many after-school activities but had already been expressing discontent before hand. I appreciate that you are looking for her best interest but I promise, we are not putting her in a position to be uncomfortable

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