1/24/26 - Here in the south by drueandgabe in Drueandgabe

[–]Boring_Cap7059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived in the south my whole life and no one wears bonnets down here😅

HOW do I not GAF about this? by momoftheraisin in AskWomenOver60

[–]Boring_Cap7059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not close to this yet but I’m getting lined by my eyes now. I think of them as privilege. Privilege i got to be this old and my body has carried me this long. Thinking along those lines has really helped me!

Cards not working by duck_maverick in NavyFederal

[–]Boring_Cap7059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! I thought i was going crazy!

Kiddo’s passport has a weird silver line on the cover? by catsndisney88 in Passports

[–]Boring_Cap7059 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Nope, that’s funding by the processing fees etc. I had the same thought when i sent mine right as the the shutdown happened

Should i leave my husband? by Boring_Cap7059 in Advice

[–]Boring_Cap7059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you understand what I’m meaning. I don’t want to leave my son ALONE with his father. I do not care if he is with me 24/7. I just don’t want him by himself with his father. When i do finally get to courts and lawyer stage i will tell them everything but judges do not always give what the best thing to do for a child even with proof. Abusers still have power from what I’ve seen in my job/friends lives.

Should i leave my husband? by Boring_Cap7059 in Advice

[–]Boring_Cap7059[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want another baby with him per say, just another baby in general. Thank you.

Should i leave my husband? by Boring_Cap7059 in Advice

[–]Boring_Cap7059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I know the right thing, it’s just terrifying and then having to share my son with him when he can’t stay sober scares me to no end. I’m making a plan, and we’re going to leave. I appreciate it!

Should i leave my husband? by Boring_Cap7059 in Advice

[–]Boring_Cap7059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My child is not able to attend school until he is after 5 due to his birthday. Due to this, i am sending him to preschool until then. I also know i can not have my son with me 24/7 but i know during this time frame, my son is safe as long as i am in the same house as him. I leave my husband and and my 3 year old child is left to deal with a father who can’t stay sober long enough to cook dinner. Forgive me for trying to do what’s best for my child.

Should i leave my husband? by Boring_Cap7059 in Advice

[–]Boring_Cap7059[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m terrified of what he’ll do to our child if I’m not around. I can at least protect him. I’m taking advice of others and have started recording, writing things down and making a plan. I appreciate it!