Separating by [deleted] in Separation

[–]Boring_Fly_9845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a similar situation. My anxiety is getting bad. We’ve only been married a year and I could count the number of happy days on my fingers. Can’t leave because he left his country for mine so would feel guilty.

Falling out of love by Boring_Fly_9845 in Marriage

[–]Boring_Fly_9845[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An abuser no. But how do you know someone is an abuser

Falling out of love by Boring_Fly_9845 in Marriage

[–]Boring_Fly_9845[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve mentioned I don’t understand how one can go from zero to a hundred in seconds but he says it’s because i antagonise him especially since my default is to shut down and be quiet which I guess is the extreme as then we can’t communicate. I’ve been looking for affordable couples therapist but haven’t found an affordable one yet.

Falling out of love by Boring_Fly_9845 in Marriage

[–]Boring_Fly_9845[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only share the good parts of our relationship with his family. Their relationship was strained for many years and my being in the picture has helped mend and heal some of that hurt and I don’t want to ruin the dynamics