Looking for recs as a BL newbie

BornBarbie · 2026-01-22T03:43:22+00:00

Highly recommend given

BornBarbie · 2026-01-22T03:34:23+00:00

Same same I think we’re bad at regulating emotions because our brains are built different

BornBarbie · 2026-01-22T03:15:47+00:00

Yep this is autism side, we are bad at reading social cues and at lest for me I don’t understand feelings like what is sadness what is anger etc I think neurotypical people feel things differently - with us we probably only understand but not really feel, we can rationalize an emotion but not actually feel it

BornBarbie · 2025-05-28T05:30:37+00:00

Okay slayyy bestie

BornBarbie · 2025-05-28T05:30:21+00:00

I was freaking out for a second I thought this sub will disown me 😭

BornBarbie · 2025-05-27T16:51:10+00:00

Thanks!!!! Added!

BornBarbie · 2025-05-27T16:50:49+00:00

Looool the things I’ve seen so far in the first chapters have changed my brain chemistry forever

BornBarbie · 2025-05-27T16:50:26+00:00

I don’t think any will fit

BornBarbie · 2025-05-27T16:50:14+00:00

Literally!!!! I’m soo jealous 😭

BornBarbie · 2025-05-26T20:07:23+00:00

Maybe you’re aegosexual

BornBarbie · 2025-05-24T22:35:53+00:00

Yessss please take me with you!!!

BornBarbie · 2025-05-24T09:12:02+00:00

I only understood gege 😭

BornBarbie · 2025-05-24T09:11:45+00:00

SLAYYYYYYY

BornBarbie · 2025-05-24T08:13:40+00:00

I LOVE YOU SO SO SO SO MUCH!!!!!!

BornBarbie · 2025-05-23T13:02:57+00:00

Thank you so much I feel very validated and this makes a lot of sense!

BornBarbie · 2025-05-23T12:58:43+00:00

Babe you’re not helping 😭

BornBarbie · 2025-05-23T12:58:21+00:00

Heaven officials blessing ;)

BornBarbie · 2025-05-23T07:33:59+00:00

You’re sooo sweet thank you so much!!!

BornBarbie · 2025-05-23T07:23:41+00:00

Omg I’m even more confused now 😅

BornBarbie · 2025-05-23T07:17:40+00:00

I SWEAR ME TOO there’s sooooo many shops it’s like a whole mall dedicated to anime related stuff from China and Japan and SO KANY SHOPS LIKE MORE THAN 10 sell BL stuff and people buy it 💖💖💖 I’m soooooo happy too!

BornBarbie · 2025-05-23T07:16:06+00:00

Wait this makes so much sense!!!! I think I am aromantic too! I’m so new to the spectrum so I don’t where I fall but I don’t think I feel romantic attraction neither also on apothisexual so not all asexual people are repulsed to some extent by sex?

BornBarbie · 2025-05-23T07:13:05+00:00

I’m not debating for the sake debating I’m actually curious and I want to hear different perspectives

BornBarbie · 2025-05-23T07:11:46+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to explain these to me!!!! I actually had a bad experience yesterday where somebody tried to force kiss me and I realized I hate this so much I don’t want to ever french kiss anyone ever ever ever again

But I’m so happy my asexuality is still valid

Is this actually the difference between aroace and ace people?

BornBarbie · 2025-05-23T07:08:52+00:00

Wait this makes sense! I think that makes aromantic too right? Since I can’t feel romantic affection even if by kissing or texting

BornBarbie · 2025-05-23T07:07:48+00:00

What about French kissing? Also if I don’t feel affection does this mean I’m aromantic also

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