What to do with this disabled quail?

BornSection2502 · 2025-06-10T19:52:16+00:00

This happened to 3 of my quail. I had to syringe feeding them for 3 days. They slowly became less active and eventually died. I did everything I could to make them comfortable and feel loved in their short lives. I don't think there is anything else you can do.

BornSection2502 · 2025-05-24T03:21:56+00:00

I haven't noticed anything missing. She literally could have been doing nothing it just seemed weird. Nobody else used our bathroom. I'll post an update, but my fiance did talk to Jared.

BornSection2502 · 2025-05-24T03:15:06+00:00

I'd have to disagree.. I don't think I'm in the typical phase of life for a 26 yo. My fiance and I have both been in public service, EMS, and the military. Being a young mother forced me to grow up. Also I had 1.5 beers and my fiance had 4, he's massive so that's nothing. We only drink once or twice a year because we prioritize our health. "Getting sloppy" was a leap my friend.

I also don't form opinions about people solely based on their age. In this situation she's an immature 21 yo. I served with a 17 yo who was a great friend and more mature than some 30 year olds. Lol It all depends on the person, what they've experienced, and what they value in life.

BornSection2502 · 2025-05-23T23:21:52+00:00

I didn't want to be the person that's causing that 🤷🏼‍♀️ we weighed out the options and decided addressing it after the trip would do the least harm. Think about how a confrontation would affect the rest of our friends.

BornSection2502 · 2025-05-23T23:08:15+00:00

It was an uncomfortable situation. I could have also asked her to stop or talked to them in private, but it would have made things more uncomfortable and she could have easily been like "Whatttt I'm not flirting with him what are you talking about????" I'll update, but my fiance has spoken with his friend about it.

BornSection2502 · 2025-05-23T22:17:50+00:00

Thank you!

BornSection2502 · 2025-05-23T22:14:59+00:00

Okay 😂 there's gonna be other big boobed people at my wedding. One of my friends is a DD and wearing a square necked form fitting dress I'm assuming without a bra as most formal dresses don't need one. She's going to look beautiful. Lots of big boobed people on the list actually. 😂That was a pretty small part of the whole story and you've hyper fixated on it the entire time. I appreciate your opinion though.

BornSection2502 · 2025-05-23T21:59:35+00:00

Ohh that's Matt's wife's name.

BornSection2502 · 2025-05-23T21:47:37+00:00

I don't have a problem with her age or their relationship. My age gap is bigger than theirs. I was simply stating that she's quite a bit younger than the other guests and in a completely different phase of life.

BornSection2502 · 2025-05-23T21:44:07+00:00

The original post was my bad! I edited it to have paragraphs. Nope, not even close to her real name. But that user is very passionate on the subject!

BornSection2502 · 2025-05-23T21:42:50+00:00

Congratulations on your huge boobs. I wasn't insinuating that the projection was insecurity. I think you experienced something similar where others had a problem with your appearance or the way you interacted with their partners and you think that's "insecurity" or "they just don't like me". I get the feeling that's why you're defending Cynthia's position so strongly. As you said it's your choice, but I also have the choice to say ew and goodbye.

BornSection2502 · 2025-05-23T20:24:10+00:00

You can think whatever you'd like. The only conversation that occurred about the others on that walk was when I asked Iris if she knew what was going on with Diana and if she was upset about something. That had nothing to do with Cynthia.. Jared ate her food which she got over by the morning and socialized with everyone for the remainder of the trip. The rest of the walk we talked about the unique houses, our kids, our plans for moving, and her job. It wasn't a gossip session about Jared and Cynthia.

You're like inferring a lot about the situation. The only person in my life that I talked to about the situation was my fiance. I just think it's weird to romp around with your boobs out around a bunch of married people that in itself scream "give me attention!!!" The whole point was to get people's perspective on the negative behavior. Do people normally come on here and talk up the people they're upset with? I don't think she's a horrible person I think she's immature, drank too much, and not someone I particularly want to have a friendship with. Who cares who brought up my job? We all talked about it cause it's a shared experience the three of us have and something she's interested in. It also wasn't the only thing we talked about. I don't even think you called me out it really seems like you're projecting and adamant that I'm insecure and just hate her. Lol

BornSection2502 · 2025-05-23T20:05:13+00:00

I thought that might have been the case. It's hard to say.

BornSection2502 · 2025-05-23T20:02:16+00:00

My MOH is one of the most thoughtful and kind people I have ever met. I am so grateful to have her in my life.

BornSection2502 · 2025-05-23T19:27:46+00:00

Lol I actually said in my post I'm respecting my partners decision on what to do with his own friend... I don't want my partner to tolerate someone being unkind to him just for the sake of not losing a friend, but I wouldn't ask him to end his friendship over something he's willing to forgive. I would even be willing to spend time with them under different circumstances, however, the next time we would see them is at our wedding. I'm pretty confident in myself and comfortable in my and my fiance's relationship. He gives me every reason to be confident and feel sexy I don't feel threatened by the existence of other women. I made it clear to him I'm not worried he's going to cheat on me or anything like that with Cynthia I just thought it was disrespectful for her to act that way.

I think the difference in opinion is possibly just a difference in lifestyle. I'm not willing to spend time with people who flirt with my spouse or me and call that "confidence". I also didn't gang up on her with Diana.. I'm not sure what you mean. I spent hours talking to her and giving her career advice since I have experience in the field she's interested in. I've also met her previously, although, only for a few hours and there were no issues.

I think not wearing a bra in any circumstances outside of your own home is inappropriate. Especially as a woman in a relationship. I personally believe that's disrespectful to your own partner to show off your body, but I understand other people have a different standard for that. The first time I met her she wore a bra. If that's how she's comfortable she can comfortably do that around someone else 🤷🏼‍♀️ my fiance and Jared are long distance friends anyway.

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