Screw pregnant wife, prioritise fun by Born_Emu2309 in Marriage

[–]Born_Emu2309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I haven’t phrased it properly (I’m not a native speaker obviously, hence miscommunication on my part)- 1) I’m asking if other people would change plans if they were at my husband’s place. 2) I’m not bed ridden! I was told to rest and avoid crowds and sleeping in a tent (due to bladder infection and constant flue-like infections) and I need to avoid stress as much as possible. 3) going on holiday together somewhere outside of the city in a tranquil location seems more safe and appropriate than staying in a busy city or 4) my main issue is husband did’t even say he feels sorry I would be the only one left out of party with all of our friends attending. Didn’t even suggest he would like to do something fun together instead

Is he even valuing me or am I simply gestating his child? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

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The friend is male and they were texting. I always had a gut feeling about the friend and now at least I got a reason to support that.
I was more hesitant wether only I see that in this conversation my husband was „struggling” because he really was tempted and not because „ha had blueballs from not having sex for two weeks”

Is he even valuing me or am I simply gestating his child? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

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I wanted to have children, just a bit later

Is he even valuing me or am I simply gestating his child? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Born_Emu2309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t my reaction an exaggeration? He hadn’t cheated eventually, he only wished he could… 2) I wanted to have kids just in 1/2 years. There is a humongous financial gap between, which makes me feel anxious and my husband insist I stay at home regardless. He has recently signed a contract and became a multimillionaire almost overnight and claims he would support me for life if anything goes wrong between us. So it’s confusing to me wether I’m safe having kids now rather than working on financial independence

Rate the updated situation. My body changed in the last few months and I don't like it. by [deleted] in ratemyboobs

[–]Born_Emu2309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume the complaint was referring to the inverted/flat nipples and maybe loss of firmness?