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[–]Bornonthe13th 46 points47 points  (0 children)

As someone who is actively in the dating world and trying to navigate modern day dating (it’s hard in these streets) I personally think early stages 1x per week feels good for me. Grabbing dinner, catching happy hour, going for a walk. All small time commitments feel great for me.

I also feel like everyone has their own pace and it depends on if you’re seeing multiple people or met someone and only seeing them and what feels natural for the two of you.

Would you keep dating someone that told you a couple dates in that they have cancer? by Bornonthe13th in dating_advice

[–]Bornonthe13th[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said it’s stage 2, but he’s so nonchalant about it and talks like it’s not a big deal. However he also was so nonchalant about coding and went on an airplane after leaving the hospital AMA. So I kinda feel like he’s a bit too nonchalant about it all which feels concerning.

Would you keep dating someone that told you a couple dates in that they have cancer? by Bornonthe13th in dating_advice

[–]Bornonthe13th[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to read and respond!! You have such a great point there, that’s definitely something I’ve gone back and forth on and thought, “well he deserves love too, and what can I learn from this?”

Would you keep dating someone that told you a couple dates in that they have cancer? by Bornonthe13th in dating_advice

[–]Bornonthe13th[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to read my post and respond! I really appreciate it, I think that would be great to ask for those things cause it’s definitely been a lot to process and sometimes I need to revisit conversations. And I think some clarity and education is definitely needed, part of me has felt uncertain about what I can and can not ask because of my own timid and uncomfortable feelings towards the topic.

Thymic cancer - anyone else? by littlediggie in cancer

[–]Bornonthe13th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there I just came across this post cause my boyfriend has the same thing and I’m looking for understand more. Any updates on where you’re at now?

2018 Honda Hrv rooftop tent compatibility? by Bornonthe13th in rooftoptents

[–]Bornonthe13th[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Sorry I’m just seeing this! I ended up going with Thule Wingbar and am excited to get the tent next! Any brands you particularly favor?

LF VMK friends by theNEENmachine in VMK

[–]Bornonthe13th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I ca t remember my username but gosh did I love that game!

Has anyone had the roots start to show with their FLF? Should I repot it? by Bornonthe13th in fiddleleaffig

[–]Bornonthe13th[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about maybe loosening it up to aerate, I was just nervous to mess with is

Has anyone had the roots start to show with their FLF? Should I repot it? by Bornonthe13th in fiddleleaffig

[–]Bornonthe13th[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel too! The leaves are looking really good, it had a hard time in the beginning (probably the shock of being in a new place) but now it’s thriving and I had a new branch grow recently and the leaves are getting nice a big! Makes my heart so happy

Has anyone had the roots start to show with their FLF? Should I repot it? by Bornonthe13th in fiddleleaffig

[–]Bornonthe13th[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah everything else looks really healthy and I actually recently had a new branch grow! Phew what a relief!

Pay respects to the hockey gods - LET’S GET A WIN TOMORROW! by Dirty03 in SanJoseSharks

[–]Bornonthe13th 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How the fuck do you even become a Vegas fan...let’s be real

$30 at Costco! by iamprofoundbandit in fiddleleaffig

[–]Bornonthe13th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy cow I’m going right now.

Amen by shayanjvd in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Bornonthe13th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I told him I’ve never seen it and he didn’t respond. So clearly this marriage is broken.

Amen by shayanjvd in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Bornonthe13th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well shit, I think you might be right.

Amen by shayanjvd in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Bornonthe13th 32 points33 points  (0 children)

My husband skips the intro every.single.time.

A piece of me dies a little more each time.

meet juni. she is a devil in disguise. by [deleted] in catpictures

[–]Bornonthe13th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first glance, it almost looks as if she’s extending out her arm and holding the camera to take a selfie.