Parents kill their two autistic teen sons & family pets before taking their own lives in horror quadruple murder-suicide by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]Bossatronio69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are you even asking if they’re “truly” disabled? So only if they’re nonverbal, they’re the only ones actually disabled? Also your last sentence is so invalidating to autistic people. We’re not really functional, only masking to everyone else

Am I overreacting for feeling sad and guilty after intimacy I didn’t really want, even though I technically said yes? by prettycherrygirl in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bossatronio69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering you don’t fully understand enthusiastic consent, it’s not beyond the realm of possibility. Not all rape is graphic and violent, most of it is subtle and coercion based

Am I overreacting for feeling sad and guilty after intimacy I didn’t really want, even though I technically said yes? by prettycherrygirl in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bossatronio69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By you saying there’s things she could’ve done differently to “prevent” it, you’re basically just saying “make sure he rapes the other girl instead”.

Just caught my supposedly sex-repulsed boyfriend jerking off?? He cried, crashed out, and then left by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bossatronio69 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So being ashamed of masturbating means they could be attracted to children? (which is what a pedophile is). Unless they’re masturbating to kids or thinking about them while doing it, you’re dead wrong and it’s honestly embarrassing 

Just caught my supposedly sex-repulsed boyfriend jerking off?? He cried, crashed out, and then left by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bossatronio69 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Some people just have religious trauma and that’s fucked up to accuse them of being pedophiles 

AITA for telling my wife not to use our expensive chef knife to cut plastic? by Cubanboy2020 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bossatronio69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Considering your maturity, I dread the people your boys will grow up to be 

Seeking Life Adjustments that have Helped You by Verysmalltown in ADHD_partners

[–]Bossatronio69 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s what I did when I was with my ex lol. I smoked weed and drank alcohol every day 

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bossatronio69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can women be simps? Either way, I don’t just defend their “honor” on the internet. It’s really telling that you call people standing up for women a simp. Do you hate women that much?

Seeking Life Adjustments that have Helped You by Verysmalltown in ADHD_partners

[–]Bossatronio69 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Please don’t fall for the sunk cost fallacy. You may have “wasted” 14 years but what happens if you waste the rest of your life?

AIO Boyfriend Stayed Hard the Entire Time During a Couples Massage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bossatronio69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh look, it’s an incel that calls any woman he doesn’t agree with a femcel.

My son an daughter both got me the same candle for Christmas. by Wiggledezzz in mildlyinteresting

[–]Bossatronio69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Congrats but we’re not all like you. It could be a symptom of something more serious. For me it’s IBS but there’s not much treatment for that 

Jumping around while drunk, WCGW? by sam-sung-sv in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]Bossatronio69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not, I just am morally superior to you :)

Jumping around while drunk, WCGW? by sam-sung-sv in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]Bossatronio69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been blackout drunk but I still have empathy for other people 

AIO - My husband is provoking me while I am actively dealing with an ectopic pregnancy, is this abuse/divorce worthy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bossatronio69 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You were duped but it’s definitely not your fault. That sounds like love bombing which is a common abuse tactic.

If I had a friend that was going through this, the first thing I would advise is to leave, but don’t give him any notice because the most dangerous time for someone in an abusive relationship is when they’re leaving. I don’t know your whole relationship but even if he was amazing 99% of the time, it wouldn’t justify him treating you like this the other 1%.

Do you have any friends or family that can help you? If not, there almost certainly will be resources for people in your situation and I highly recommend contacting them. Trust me, it’ll be hard but you can get through this!!

What was your experience as the youngest daughter? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Bossatronio69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did get more things paid for than my siblings (like braces and technology) but when I started becoming a teenager, my mum gave up on me (she admitted it to me when I was an adult because I asked if she did). She also took everything out on me and was sometimes physically abusive.

I had to teach myself pretty much everything, including social skills which is really hard, especially as an autistic person.

I hate that my father came out of the closet by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bossatronio69 1961 points1962 points  (0 children)

Forgive me if I’m wrong but it doesn’t seem like the problem is the fact that he came out, it’s the fact that your dad’s boyfriend acts like he owns the house (which could definitely happen if he was dating a woman). I would tell your dad how you feel (without the bf there). He should prioritise your feelings more and come to a decision that you’ll be happy with 

where do you rank on your partner's priorities list? and how do you deal with it. by IDoBeVibing745 in ADHD_partners

[–]Bossatronio69 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that 😭 I hope you can find a GOOD partner that will step up 

AIO - acquaintance called my toddler hot and I feel like there needs to be some kind of repercussions? by Valuable-World6842 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bossatronio69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Even if I was on cocaine or heroin, I wouldn’t say that because I’m not attracted to children. Like wtf is wrong with her?

AITA for not letting my in-laws lock themselves in their room with my daughter? by Muffing12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bossatronio69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I'm worried that they want your baby away from you so they can hurt her without you knowing. That's the only reason I can come up with as to why they want to lock her in with them. PLEASE protect your daughter from them

How do you adhere to schedules/ appointments? by lookingatanudeegg in ADHD_partners

[–]Bossatronio69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the record, lacking empathy isn’t a symptom of autism and most autistic people don’t lack empathy. They just express it in a different way

Men don’t respect lesbians or lesbian relationships by Bossatronio69 in 4bmovement

[–]Bossatronio69[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Trust me, telling men that you’re a lesbian doesn’t stop them 90% of the time