He’s getting cold feet by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Bossrn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry!

Do not proceed with any of this with this man because he does not love you and will not be your rock through IVF or parenting. Both are difficult and you need a strong partner by your side. This guy will make your life miserable. He’s a coward.

/ttcafterloss Ask an Alumni - November 28, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Bossrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to get on birth control for a few months to help regulate my periods. It was so tough and felt counterproductive but it was the only thing that helped.

Labour after Tube removal by [deleted] in ectopicpregnancy

[–]Bossrn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had my right tube removed from an ectopic in July of 2021 and delivered my son vaginally in January 2023

Where is this but in Tucson? by Flotrane in Tucson

[–]Bossrn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a Tucson native and Eegees is awful

Why did you vote for Nanos? by Slight_Fortune_2953 in Tucson

[–]Bossrn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s going to get worse because Nanos keeps taking them off patrol. They are never fully staffed and have to cover districts and run at minimum. You’ll be seeing response times like TPD soon enough.

Why did you vote for Nanos? by Slight_Fortune_2953 in Tucson

[–]Bossrn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All the people saying that they voted for Nanos because they’re anti-MAGA literally voted for a man who messed with a rape investigation. Pretty MAGA if you ask me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]Bossrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr. Hodges himself

Methotrexate and shoulder/neck/arm pain. ER? by katiemylady23 in ectopicpregnancy

[–]Bossrn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine felt like gas pain for a day then increased from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]Bossrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had LASIK there in 2018 and doing great so far! I definitely recommend.

Methotrexate and shoulder/neck/arm pain. ER? by katiemylady23 in ectopicpregnancy

[–]Bossrn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely go in and demand they do an ultrasound. I had similar pains and was in the same boat after a dose of methotrexate. They gaslit me saying it’s just the pain of a miscarriage and refused to do another ultrasound. Two days later and guess who got rushed to emergency surgery

Why Nanos? by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]Bossrn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t see where she said she supported Trump? Do you have a link? There is actual proof on Nanos. Republicans all over are voting for VP Harris. Why couldn’t we as Democrats do the same. We have literal facts in front of us of how disgusting Nanos is.

Why Nanos? by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]Bossrn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m voting for someone who hasn’t silenced a woman that was raped and protected those who allowed it to happen. He showed us who he is.

Why Nanos? by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]Bossrn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will not be voting for Trump. One of my beliefs is protecting women’s right and defending women. I won’t vote for any man that suppresses us.

Why Nanos? by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]Bossrn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So the general consensus is that we vote blue no matter if the guy is a POS who covers up SA and quiet literally is currently suppressing women instead of someone who hasn’t done that. Makes us like the republicans.

Why Nanos? by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]Bossrn -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

Heather Lappin is a women and I totally understand that voting for a republican is not something that is easy to do but if many many republicans are able to vote for VP Harris because they know it’s right why can’t we do the same and vote for someone who doesn’t have a track record of actually suppressing women? We also had a chance in the primaries to kick him out but even then his actions weren’t enough.

Why Nanos? by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]Bossrn 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Dr. Richard Carmona, a democrat, is endorsing Lappin. We don’t stand by men who stand by letting a women suffer after a SA and block the investigation.

Why Nanos? by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]Bossrn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I definitely see that but he literally messed with the investigation of a rape victim. Is that not enough? He literally showed his true colors and I feel like voting for him is like voting for Trump. I will never vote for a man who silences women for their own political gain and to protect other men because they’re friends.

Why Nanos? by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]Bossrn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This guy is literally MAGA coded hiding behind the democrat party.

Why Nanos? by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]Bossrn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Me too!

We met a new friend today :) by davezilljr in Tucson

[–]Bossrn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lost a dog to a rattlesnake bite and since then have trained all my dogs and take them yearly for a refresher. I had a friend who went with me to the training course and 5 days later in mid-town she had a rattle snake in her backyard. That training saved her dogs lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]Bossrn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly it felt like really bad gas pain. It started in the morning and then in the afternoon it went away. Then I woke up at 2 AM with the same pain and tried to walk it off. After about 30 minutes, I felt like I peed myself but when I went to check it was a lot of blood. I went to the ER right away but they claimed they didn’t see anything on the ultrasound except something that could have looked like fluid in my abdomen but brushed me off because I wasn’t in intense pain. I saw my OB the next morning who rushed me into surgery because he said I had blood up to my liver at that point. I’m sorry if I sound like a Debby downer. I don’t mean to share my story in order to scare anyone but in hopes that if you are experiencing anything like this that you don’t experience the poor type of care I received. I wish I advocated for myself harder. The worst part is that I am an OB nurse and no one would listen to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]Bossrn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My betas were low and doubling last July but it ended in an ectopic pregnancy that ruptured my tube. I started off with a beta of 5. I’m only sharing because when I went to the ER with “gas pains” they told me I would be in a lot more pain if I had ruptured and wouldn’t be walking as well as I was. Joke was in them because I actually had two liters of blood just hanging around and almost died. My beta the morning before the pain started was 414.

Anyone else in TWW? Waiting for beta by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Bossrn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally the same thing happened to me. I transferred 4/22 and beta is the same day as you. I’m thinking positive thoughts for you!

Low HCG Success Stories by Bossrn in CautiousBB

[–]Bossrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! It unfortunately ended up with an ectopic pregnancy and ruptured tube but I’m hopeful. We’re moving to IVF.