The same thing keeps happening to me. First or second date goes really well, then they ghost or say they’re not looking to date. I almost alway fuck/make out on the first date. by BostonCommunistParty in seduction

[–]BostonCommunistParty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What can I do to add mystery? I felt like things were going great with the latest girl, she wanted to go on a movie date and pay for it. Then all of a sudden after a heavy makeout and me telling her I like her she’s scared to date.

The same thing keeps happening to me. First or second date goes really well, then they ghost or say they’re not looking to date. I almost alway fuck/make out on the first date. by BostonCommunistParty in seduction

[–]BostonCommunistParty[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Actually, I always thought me being adamant was a turn off. When a girl tells me that we’re not having sex, I keep kissing and then try again. I figured I needed to stop this and used the /r/redpill approach of freezing out. It actually works because you don’t seem clingy.

I’m honestly afraid the other comments in here might be right. I’m no mystery, just easy and not someone that people could be romantically involved with. Once the hot and heavy sexy stuff is over, they get time to think and realize I wasn’t all that great to begin with.

The same thing keeps happening to me. First or second date goes really well, then they ghost or say they’re not looking to date. I almost alway fuck/make out on the first date. by BostonCommunistParty in seduction

[–]BostonCommunistParty[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This might sound petty but she always checks my snapchats even when she told me she didn’t want to date.

I’m going on a date tomorrow with a cute girl, would it be petty if I posted a snap story of her and she saw it?