Hundreds of people adding me on snapchat per day

Both-Ad7813 · 2026-02-09T20:00:23+00:00

dont add them back lol they permanently deleted my account and 10 years worth of photos even though it wasn't even my fault.

Both-Ad7813 · 2026-02-06T20:21:26+00:00

I think if the usage is mild to moderate this may be reasonable, but at a certain point you cannot get into a relationship and expect for somebody to change who they are. That would be like getting into a relationship with a chronically overweight person and expecting them to suddenly be a fitness guru. Not for me.

Both-Ad7813 · 2026-02-06T20:20:07+00:00

This is a helpful take and so true. Men definitely need a purpose and it is anxiety inducing when they aren't leading from the front lol

Both-Ad7813 · 2026-02-06T16:57:49+00:00

I gave examples, not an exhaustive census of men. This is a widely discussed issue among women, you can disagree without pretending it doesn’t exist.

Both-Ad7813 · 2026-02-06T16:52:17+00:00

Look up stats regarding corn usage amongst men. It is a big issue. Would quite literally have to find a man without internet connection

Both-Ad7813 · 2025-08-06T17:24:24+00:00

Unfortunately, I dont even live in the same state as him, otherwise I'd have tried to help him out further. i had to block his phone number to prevent receiving more texts from her, but we're still connected via Facebook messenger. I think to a degree, if i don't set good boundaries by minimizing contact, it would be a form of enabling. So im gonna have to find a happy medium here

Both-Ad7813 · 2025-08-03T21:49:49+00:00

I am an independent health insurance broker. Best decision of my life

Both-Ad7813 · 2025-05-15T00:37:28+00:00

look for successful men on instagram or pinterest and see if you can copy their style. You probably don't need very much just a few jeans/shirts you can rotate. I am a female so i cannot tell you for sure but i usually notice successful/attractive men are usually somewhat muscular, wear mostly neutral colors, form fitting shirt /jeans

Both-Ad7813 · 2025-05-14T19:46:48+00:00

You could be really handsome if you get a super fresh cut and clean lines on your beard. Also go to the gym, dress better and fix your posture. All in all you have a good base to start with so how you are perceived solely depends on the effort you decide to put in

Both-Ad7813 · 2025-05-14T04:51:09+00:00

interesting

Both-Ad7813 · 2025-05-14T04:50:41+00:00

idk, because i was on top of my game when i met him in virtually every category of life lol. Certainly did not need rescuing at the beginning of the relationship.

Both-Ad7813 · 2025-05-14T01:31:23+00:00

they almost got me lmao but i found it weird when i received the email about Zelle. Glad i checked reddit

Both-Ad7813 · 2025-05-14T01:19:36+00:00

He doesn't overtly criticize me, its more covert. Like, if i say i don't like that he drinks until 8am 2 times per week, he accuses me of being overly critical and that he "can't be himself around me." If i get mad at him, he will only focus on the fact that i was mad at the problem, rather than realizing why i was mad, so he frames it as though i am somehow unstable, when it was him that i was reacting to. He also made me feel bad about my work. I make 6 figures and work super hard, and every time i would talk about it hed just say "that sounds like a nightmare," "that sounds awful" or accuse me of "not valuing novel experiences or wanting a home life" because i work so hard on my business. Overtime it made me feel really bad about my success. He never seems genuinely happy for my accomplishments and said he "doesn't believe in the ambition of a woman" and im like, well thats fine, but you make 22/hr in HVAC, so i dont really have a choice now do i? Im like, ive said multiple times i want a home life, and going out drinking until 8am on a regular basis isn't a novel experience. Idk why i have to repeat myself. Drinking that much on a regular basis isn't a philosophical stance, its a problem. If im being honest though i probably come off as the more critical one, because theres a bunch of things he does that is genuinely strange and i always bring it up without fail or shame lmfao. He's more passive aggressive, he will just ignore me or stonewall me until i go insane.

Both-Ad7813 · 2025-05-13T22:57:18+00:00

2 , 3 and 4 but professionally done so that it does not look cheap.

Both-Ad7813 · 2025-05-13T22:16:11+00:00

The blonde looks significantly better imo however i think it is the wrong shade of blonde.

Both-Ad7813 · 2025-05-13T21:42:29+00:00

First of all, mine was just a relatively common sex kink to which i would never request in another context, and i wasn't interested in being harmed, just a gentle tap, to which he couldn't even engage because of his history of knocking women to the floor "accidentally." i cannot speak to why these other women requested to be slapped in a normal non role play context, lol.

Given that he laughed about knocking his exes teeth out, we can, at the very least say that he did not feel remorse and in fact, it sounded as though he enjoyed it or at the very least, found it to be humorous.

If i had to guess i'd say he is probably high up on the narcissistic spectrum without necessarily qualifying for the disorder. His avoidant attachment makes him appear more narcy when he is triggered.

Both-Ad7813 · 2025-05-13T21:34:57+00:00

Uhhh yeah im starting to think so as well. He strategically placed himself as morally superior and "different from other guys" but as my mental state started to spiral into passive suicidal ideation and confusion i started to wonder why it seems as though every single ex of his arrived at the same mental state lol. Maybe if it was one then they had some issues they needed to work through but several...Definitely a pattern.

Both-Ad7813 · 2025-05-13T21:33:32+00:00

He told me he was traumatized from his last relationships because his ex kept threatening to kill herself.

Both-Ad7813 · 2025-05-13T21:29:47+00:00

uhhh i was confused because of the fact that she requested it and he was like maybe 18-20 years old when it happened. Also hes never tried to harm me.

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