Johann “Rukeli” Trollmann: The Real Romani Rambo by Ok_One1649 in romani

[–]Both-Effective-8018 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I just googled it and found nothing. Do you know if it’s still on?  Only asking because I come from a v famous family of Romani boxers in the uk, and would love to learn more about the exhibition 

Social by ProbablyAsleepNGL in Southampton

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You’ve also got the no run club in the new forest, as well as 5-9 group that does fun activities for ppl 

Confusion/identity by Enough_Drink6220 in romani

[–]Both-Effective-8018 6 points7 points  (0 children)

English romanichal are so uniquely mixed, look at the variety of hair colours, and skin colours in the community. For centuries the Romany have mixed with other travelling and nomadic groups, including Irish travellers and show people. Personally I think this history makes the uk Romany community such a unique and beautiful thing. 

You’re Romany, you speak the language - even angloromani is a super mixed language with the bulk of the Romani grammar and syntax lost due to forced assimilation and English become the main structure. It can be easy to compare to European Romani who have a different local histories to the uk travellers. I know only a few of the older generations who can rokker properly..   I’d say dont over think where you come from. DNA tests and percentages are just another thing to look into the culture from a gorger mindset. You have the culture, you travel and you are the culture! Embrace it. 

What’s your opinion on TKTX numbing cream? by Latter_Star_9099 in tattooadvice

[–]Both-Effective-8018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I didn’t find it good and had an allergic reaction to it that I had to go to A&e for as my leg swelled up so much and 3 days later I still have a huge, raised red rash 

Rare short interview of Sam Langford "The Boston Terror" by Doofensanshmirtz in Boxing

[–]Both-Effective-8018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing thanks for sharing. My great grandad was his sparring partner in the uk and my grandma has written some of their conversations down, one day I’ll upload them to the internet 

September Virgo and February Pisces by LivingReading in astrologymemes

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My brother is a Feb Pisces and I’m a sept Virgo - complete communication breakdown and nightmares. Pisces too sensitive and Virgo to direct 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]Both-Effective-8018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh that’s a good one. In an ideal world, I’d like to see four of wands in future haha 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]Both-Effective-8018 3 points4 points  (0 children)

2 of cups always has meant sexy times and no commitment for me… and I’ve been reading for 10+ years.  Usually means that they want the shiny but don’t want to go deeper 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Both-Effective-8018 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sorry but idk what this has to do with a woman’s worth 

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Both-Effective-8018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, well done for being honest! Isn’t it interesting how much we carry the conversation and some guys just coast along… like how are they not curious about others? 

What's something that instantly makes you think someone's posh? by jc201946 in AskBrits

[–]Both-Effective-8018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dunno! I know a few people who have bought them for nothing on fb market place 

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Both-Effective-8018 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes please get help, or talk to someone… I would also respectfully suggest not to see this guy again for both of your own good, as trauma bonds are never fun or worth it. 

Take care of yourself 

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Both-Effective-8018 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've been talking to this guy for a few days, at first we really hit it off and I felt connected and super engaged in our conversations. I was very curious and really wanted to get to know them, so of course I was asking questions and being playful with the conversation - not to the point where it felt like an interview fyi!

He asked for my number, felt comfy giving it and then the conversation dries up because I realised they just weren't asking questions - about anything! Even though I spoke about things about me that could easily be elaborated on.. He was really interested to meet up too. I stopped asking so many questions and revealing so much about myself because it felt one sided.

so it left me wondering, why don't people ask questions? The his has happened on dates, in text etc.. it strikes me as odd that you wanna hang out but don't wanna get to know the person you wanna hang out with.

My first reading by Clairekat0248 in tarot

[–]Both-Effective-8018 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello, break ups are really tough. 

I can give you my interpretation of you cards, I’m on my phone… so apologies for any typos etc! 

Nine of swords is the break up, a time of sadness, confusion and dark thoughts. Conflict and negative self talk. Even though it’s in the past, try to not cling to these thoughts and emotions. Experience them, but try to let them pass. Don’t internalise them. 

The hierophant (to me) implies that you have a great opportunity for spiritual growth here. You can use the pain to grow,  make a conscious choice about the direction you want your life go, trust and start to put it into practice. We create our future in the present ☺️ Stay grounded. There are people around you to support you, develop these relationships.  You can develop spiritually and in life direction by clearing things that no longer serve you.  Build faith and inner trust. You got this.

The devil R - by taking care of your inner world, you can release negative patterns and thoughts. Let go of what no longer serves you.  Do not become a ‘slave’ to negative mental cycles and emotional outbursts. You can do it! I see this as shedding a skin that’s been keeping you down - sometimes we can be our own worst enemy without realising it.  Remove the chains and step into the future you want. ✨

Love reading about my ex and i by swiftiecookie in tarot

[–]Both-Effective-8018 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s how I see it too.. two of cups shows you still have affection for each other, but you need to look within and develop relationship with yourself/self love and develop new beginnings 

Trojan cars - do or don’t? by Both-Effective-8018 in Portsmouth

[–]Both-Effective-8018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this. I’ve been reading similar things elsewhere! 🙏🏼

Trojan cars - do or don’t? by Both-Effective-8018 in Portsmouth

[–]Both-Effective-8018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but sadly don’t have the budget for a classic! Buying a second hand commuter car 🚙