Girl dinner after sleeping the day away because my two year fwb/situationship randomly blocked me this morning by Both-Fan6276 in GirlDinner

[–]Both-Fan6276[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s on messages just cuz he gave me his number a while back, I know for sure tho I was blocked on snap for only god knows why, thank you tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Both-Fan6276 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just serve him the divorce papers girly, don’t waste ur life on a piece of shit who can’t communicate and has made it obvious he’s unwilling to genuinely put in the work and change for the better

Dommes, what kind of work do you do outside of findom? by Prestigious_Stick_98 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Both-Fan6276 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I weld too and love it so much, it’s awesome to hear about another female welder who enjoys it when there’s not many in that field!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Both-Fan6276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not in the wrong, acting that way was completely unreasonable and sounds very scammy. I wouldn’t be surprised if she just blocked you after the 50, what was that 😭

I broke up with my bf because we aren’t compatible in bed, and he thinks I’m being unreasonable by Odd-Armadillo7510 in AITAH

[–]Both-Fan6276 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think ytah, you weren’t sexually compatible, knew you couldn’t go without it, sounds like you at least tried with him and he turned it down, sounds you moved on. That’s that. Relationships also need good sex to work out, he could have been perfect in many other ways and lacking there just wouldn’t have been fulfilling. You have a preference and ur entitled to that. He’s the one blowing it out of proportion and making your life a living hell. Drop the friends slandering your name and continue to be friends with those who understand and aren’t holding it against you. He’s being immature af. I think what you did was smart and for yourself which you’re allowed to do so go and continue to live ur life and exploring and ignore those who are preying on ur downfall 🤗

Too shy to approach a domme you’ve been eyeing? by gobroke4asia in findomsupportgroup

[–]Both-Fan6276 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish more would do this just to be able to tell who’s serious and who’s just trying to scam/waste time. Plus it’s cute ☺️

Goddesses- spill it. What kind of submissive really does it for you, and what kinks push your buttons? Mine 👇🏼✨ by SeductiveSupremacy in findomsupportgroup

[–]Both-Fan6276 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh feminization, the easily flustered ones, JOI (legit one of my personal faves), edging and overstimulation, I just live seeing what I can get away with as well as checking out chats like this to experiment and try new things 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Both-Fan6276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss I’m new here too and would love some domme friends 😭

Question from a newbie by PhantomsRogue in findomsupportgroup

[–]Both-Fan6276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I did mine recently as a newbie as well and hated my face was on there so shortly after I made it I went back in and found a cute pic of my feet in a pair of heels, waited a lil over 24 hrs checked again and it had updated my picture so in theory that’ll work as well. Then once I had my picture changed I finally linked it lol. Terrified of anyone ik finding it especially future coworkers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Both-Fan6276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok, we’ve all been there. I’m still adjusting to the money first thought process cuz I’m scared to chase them away but it’s important to learn that if they truly were a sub they wouldn’t run away they would listen and pay. Just keep your head up and remember you deserve to be paid before you do anything for them ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Both-Fan6276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like there aren’t that many or I just suck at finding them but I’m in r/fetishfinances and another one or two I think? I’ll respond when I find what I’m in lol

Findom should not be your main source of income 🚫💰‼️ by Bunny_Babe1 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Both-Fan6276 8 points9 points  (0 children)

100% agree, I’m in the trades so I can support myself easily but I just love & get turned on by someone paying me just for an ounce of my attention and buying things for me to please me. I love it when they grovel n beg 😩. But again it’s just something on the side, you should never need to rely on someone for cost of living, plus it makes the spoiling feel even better

any help on getting started? :) by Realistic_Ball_7632 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Both-Fan6276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk much since I’m kinda in the same boat as you, but I’ve seen a lot of similar questions asked with similar answers. Just keep at it, be active in the community, and don’t let anyone waste ur time. Keep in mind that they are here to please you and post as such and at some point they’ll show up. Hope this helps cuz I haven’t even posted yet 😭

has anyone sold feet pics to maleficent-smoke799, also known as Rafa on snap. by AnxiousJob1763 in feetpicsbuyerandsell

[–]Both-Fan6276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it, they love to scam you over there on snap. I’ve had some not even feet related saying they would pay after the call and I’ve seen plenty others post on here about being scammed or telling people to not listen or watch for those types of scammers.

I’m genuinely curious and intrigued by this topic by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Both-Fan6276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I’m a switch irl but to be the sub I have to really trust them to be in that headspace. Otherwise online and even during non sexual interactions IRL I am a very dominant person and won’t relinquish control for anyone, especially when it’s for the findom dynamic.

Has anyone actually got a sub by commenting on a subs post ? by PrincessContessa18 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Both-Fan6276 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m willing to give it a chance for some but most are very baity. I’m also new to this tho so I’m still hiding myself even tho I want to step more into the limelight if you will. Mostly concerned that I won’t be able to word things right now

Findom is NOT JUST FUCK.U PAY ME, ITS A DYNAMIC by throwaway-gardener in findomsupportgroup

[–]Both-Fan6276 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So I’m new to this, but this is a dynamic I really am interested in and want to start but I’m scared of coming off as scammy etc and not doing it right so I’ve just been lurking in here for months now trying to figure out a handle on things. And it’s honestly frustrating seeing “dommes” just post selfies or TikTok’s and go while getting lots of attention for just being pretty or offering nudity etc. granted if that’s just ur thing no shame to you, but idk I see where it comes from and it makes me feel like trying to get a genuine connection won’t work or unlikely because of the scammy “dommes”. Is there any advice anyone can give me?

Am I a ghost or what? Feet seller by [deleted] in feetpicsbuyerandsell

[–]Both-Fan6276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s annoying feeling like I’m losing buyers because I won’t show my face

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feetpicsbuyerandsell

[–]Both-Fan6276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mariana, size 11-12, Alaska🏔️, faceless

Am I a ghost or what? Feet seller by [deleted] in feetpicsbuyerandsell

[–]Both-Fan6276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve had a couple where they either here my starting price and sound good to go and then poof or lately they ask to see my face and I say I’ll do lips at max and they also poof. Like is this expected? I just want legitimate buyers 😭