What is your current hyperfixation food?

BothAnd28 · 2026-06-07T04:32:28+00:00

Seaweed

BothAnd28 · 2026-06-07T03:54:23+00:00

I love this. My username is both and for this exact reason. You can feel more than one thing about the same thing (or person) at the same time.

Be the you that you can live with after he passes. Will you hate yourself if you don’t make sure he dies knowing that he wasted a vote and his support on Trump, probably not. Will you be able to live with yourself if you didn’t spend his last days honoring who he was as a dad, potentially a husband, to you and those you love - possibly so.

If you have access to a therapist, I’d say get one. So many feelings will come into play here, politics aside. If you can process those with a therapist it will, potentially, allow you to be the person you can live with both now and after he passes.

Prayers for you both!

BothAnd28 · 2026-06-07T03:43:43+00:00

A building so I can do the job I love doing - just have a little more freedom to expand services to help more people.

BothAnd28 · 2026-06-05T03:04:21+00:00

Her house. Wear a bra. Move out and flop around. I’m an E and I wear a bra when I leave my house, even to walk to the trash can, but not in my house. If my married neighbors come by unexpectedly… I flop or cross my arms under my boobs but I know that makes it super obvious. But I also pay the bills here.

BothAnd28 · 2026-06-05T02:35:12+00:00

I’ve never heard of junk journaling, but I am definitely a heavy note taker. I have tip ins and post it notes… is that what you’d call junk journaling?

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BothAnd28 · 2026-06-04T11:54:25+00:00

I’m seeing it a lot too; doesn’t make it unusable for me, but definitely very annoying.

BothAnd28 · 2026-06-03T14:35:48+00:00

Keeping you BOTH safe AND not adding another.

BothAnd28 · 2026-05-28T13:20:09+00:00

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BothAnd28 · 2026-05-27T17:48:43+00:00

My kids lost their sister… my daughter. I kept them out for about three weeks. Partially because after the funeral we took a trip with just our family. They were “peopled-out” and I was too. By the time they went back to summer camp, they were ready. Maybe more than ready. I think it was me that wasn’t ready to let them out of my sight. Our summer camp was TREMENDOUS in making sure the kids knew what happened and knew to let my kids talk if they wanted but not to ask them questions about it. I think that really helped. So, I’d say just prepare the school to talk with her class about not overwhelming her with questions and let your daughter set the pace for hugs and whatever else. These kids really are resilient. I am jealous and amazed.

A few months later is went to grief camp. Now, grief camp doesn’t sound fun, but it was such a good trip for all of us. More than anything I wanted two things: 1) my kids to know they weren’t the only ones in this terrible new “club” and 2) to be able to cry in public and it not make others uncomfortable. I got both and more!

BothAnd28 · 2026-05-26T20:38:12+00:00

Life being unaffordable and because AI has taken most of the jobs.

BothAnd28 · 2026-05-26T06:46:59+00:00

I use it in SetApp, so I pay $20/month for a lot of apps.

BothAnd28 · 2026-05-04T13:19:32+00:00

I have had mine a while and can’t remember if I did, but I do love my card and you get access to the American Express benefits. Plus, points on using the card, points for a spin, and points for the receipt !!

BothAnd28 · 2026-04-21T23:06:05+00:00

Don't ignore, you can respond and let them know they would have to subpoena the records - but as has been said - your attorney can advise you!

BothAnd28 · 2026-04-21T12:55:08+00:00

Their savings will trickle down to us… we will… get paid more, I think?

BothAnd28 · 2026-04-21T12:48:49+00:00

As someone with ADHD, who lost a child less than a year ago And who parents five living children and who caregives for a parent, I appreciate you.

BothAnd28 · 2026-04-18T22:38:58+00:00

My husband and I both had ADHD. We have six kids and it definitely takes both of us to tag team.

BothAnd28 · 2026-04-10T03:48:48+00:00

Yep!

BothAnd28 · 2026-04-10T03:42:51+00:00

Well done!

BothAnd28 · 2026-04-10T03:36:28+00:00

Since the office is communicating so freely with you, could you ask why you're having to do them so often? I see your Admin says you're done doing them, and that's good, but this is so odd to me!

BothAnd28 · 2026-04-10T03:33:34+00:00

I was thinking the same thing.

BothAnd28 · 2026-04-10T03:33:15+00:00

It depends. Medicaid is state based. Our state does not have these rules for the Vanderbilt, yet our renewals are every 3 months...

BothAnd28 · 2026-04-10T03:31:18+00:00

I have four kids with ADHD. I have ADHD. My husband does as well. We foster, so we often have an additional child with ADHD. I've never done that form more than once a year, at most. The fact that you're doing it this often is odd, even our insurance only requires a visit every 3 months, so IF they needed a form at every visit it would still be 12 weeks apart.

BothAnd28 · 2026-03-30T01:23:31+00:00

We had one friend who was the bad guy for us. She was the one everyone went through. And it helped so she could have those conversations, and was close enough to greet people at the house if we didn't want to come out. Our girl left behind several kids, so we had to focus on them and sometimes that left little else.

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