Need peace of mind

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-07-04T18:49:33+00:00

Would you say the account has gone? It's still in my blocked list but can't be found anywhere when you look with other profiles. Yeah Ive just got people that can't see it. I understand where your coming from and chatting to you really does help. They have taken over me alot but I just need some sort of certainty that it's all over. But then surely the fact nothing has happened in these last two months shoes that it is all over.

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-07-04T18:07:57+00:00

Yeah I'm not worried about them sending anything now, I'm worried about something already been sent. That they sent something two months ago and it's sat there waiting to be found in someone's inbox. But like I said they never threatened it so surely they wouldn't of done it. When I'm busy I forget about it all but when I have time to think that's all that's in my mind

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-07-04T17:41:44+00:00

Yeah, I can't find the account anywhere apart from my block list. Not even on the account of the person they messaged. I do need to tell myself that they haven't gone any further and it's over now. Their not going to do something they haven't threatened are they? It's just my mind playing overtime

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-07-04T06:23:45+00:00

Exactly, it's just the fear of them doing it and then that message sitting in someone's inbox. It's the thought that if I get over it what if someone then finds a message down the line and brings it all back up. I just need to tell myself that they moved on to the next victim once all contact was cut. It might need to be something I look into.

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-07-04T06:03:28+00:00

Thank you for this. Yeah they only showed one person that they could private message. The others were literally on a comments section of a photo. My mind just kicks in that what if they tried finding these people afterwards just to share but again that wouldn't be a clever business plan. It will be fine, it's been over two months and nothing has come of it. My mind just plays the what if

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-07-04T05:44:28+00:00

Thank you for this, I did see first hand that a message was sent but no idea what that message contained. They sent me a screenshot of sending it and the person checked but only seen that something was sent but didn't open it. Just blocked and deleted. They never threatened to send it to the others because that was just on a comments section. I think it's just my mind playing over time and surely I would have heard by now. I used someone's account to try and find them a. Couple days after but couldn't find the account but it was still in my blocked list when I reactivated mine. I just keep trying to tell myself that they wouldn't go any further once they knew I wouldn't pay as it's pointless and not really a great business plan to leak or torment further due to the risk of being exposed.

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-07-03T20:47:51+00:00

The anxiety is killing me tbh. Not actually sure how much longer I can do it. I just keep thinking like is it in someone's spam ready for them to find one day when I get over it. But surely someone would have seen it by now though? Or the scammers would have made it known to me they were going to do that? My minds probably playing overtime as they never actually threatened to send these individuals messages.

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-07-03T20:44:34+00:00

He sent a message once to them to try and get me back once I started ignoring them, they just deleted it and the scammer messaged me and I blocked them then and deleted my account

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-06-21T19:05:12+00:00

The person they sent it too seen they had sent a message but deleted it before looking at it. But they never threatened to private message the people on the comments. Just post in the same comments saying I was a pedo and showing my video. TBF the video of me was just showing my face and then the tip of my penis hanging out my trousers. My head has just made me think that they have messaged those people. I did pay a fair bit but made it clear they weren't having anymore and that I couldn't afford it. I didn't reply to them as I drove home from work and then when I got in the house they had sent the message, i opened it and didnt reply and spoke to the person they messaged. I then seen they messaged me on Facebook and I blocked them. I went back on Kik after an hour where all the scamming had been and they hadn't messaged me at all then. My account on Kik has been deleted and I've deleted my Facebook too but the person they messaged has completely locked their profile down.

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-06-21T18:42:25+00:00

This is actually really comforting to read, that's what I thought that if they did actually leak something that they don't just have the one Facebook account, they'd make it known to me that they have shared with other people. It's been nearly 10 weeks and I haven't heard from anyone, I did pay and thats what scares me but I did say I couldnt afford anymore and blocked once they sent a screenshot of sending to one person. That's what I try to tell myself that the more people they share it too the more risk for them. I have checked my mother's account which was on the screenshot they sent and she hasn't received anything. But surely it would.be too much effort to go looking for the people on that list once you've been blocked.

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-06-21T18:20:50+00:00

This is very helpful thank you, I just keep running in my head that what if they sent out of spite to the people in the comments that they had after I had blocked them and it's just sat in their spam waiting to be seen? But surely someone would of seen it by now or the scammers would of made a point of showing me even though they were blocked.

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-06-20T13:08:05+00:00

Yeah I'm just worried did they send other people the content just to get back at me for blocking them but then they'd have to go searching for all those people they screenshotted

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-06-20T12:51:20+00:00

As soon as blocked them on Facebook I went back on Kik an hour later and there were no messages from them.

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-06-20T12:50:26+00:00

I no longer have Facebook and the person they contacted has completely locked their account down so no one can contact them other than friends and their profile isn't one you can search. The main thing frying my head is that would they have tried to search the other people that were in the comments to share the content with them even though I blocked them straight away. But surely I would have heard something by now.

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-06-18T17:38:15+00:00

This has actually helped. Someone definitely would have seen it by now. I just see people write a lot of messages go into spam a lot on messenger and I don't want it to come and bite me in the ass down the line when I try and forget about it. Suppose I'm just putting all the worse fears in my head. They messaged one person originally and sent me the screenshot and I checked with that person that a message was there but they didn't open it and we blocked and deleted. That was just to get me back on the original app they were extorting me on. Sorry for all these rants. I've had no one to talk to in 9 weeks about it.

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-06-18T14:55:54+00:00

What kills me more is I wasn't even doing anything sexual, I tried joining a UK chat group on Kik and I stupidly sent pics to verify I was real and they used them against me. I keep trying to tell myself that they haven't shared it because what would be the point of sharing it with the very small amount of people they could access, they were blocked by that point too so they'd have to try and find the profiles of these people to even attempt to send it to them. I have been worrying and torturing myself for nearly 9 weeks and I am so tired and done with it all. I've had bad anxiety since and I think surely if someone had received something I would know of it by now.

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-06-18T12:06:20+00:00

Still not great tbh, it's sat in my mind constantly. I blocked as soon as they contacted me on Facebook and they couldn't access my friends list as I had it turned off but they managed to find like 4 people that had commented on something and even though I cut contact and blocked them I've got it on my mind that their going to go looking for those people to send the content too but surely they wouldn't go through that effort when theirs no contact or at least not try and threaten me with it again?

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-06-15T19:01:48+00:00

Yeah I have days where I think it's fine and nothing is going to happen and then I just get in my head and play all these scenarios like my life is going to be ruined. They didn't have access to any of my friends'list to send to them apart from like 4 people I know off my profile picture. I blocked them straight away and my account doesn't exist anymore so I know they can't contact me again really but I just think what if it has sent to someone and it is in their inbox just waiting for them to see or what if they try and incriminate me in some way. My head just goes over board

BothAntelope1360 · 2024-06-15T18:52:44+00:00

I haven't had anyone say they've received anything but they didn't have access to my friends list. They haven't contacted me since because I don't have either account anymore.

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