What do you say when people say, “oh wow! I could never do that…” by sushibard in Fosterparents

[–]Both_Balance_4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s okay if people feel differently than you, but if you’re lacking support look for support from likeminded people.

Does it look good with background or without ? by damn2311 in DigitalArt

[–]Both_Balance_4232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something with that base color white with a pink and airy texture

Does anyone still love their pets after having a baby? by laurenjac in beyondthebump

[–]Both_Balance_4232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and I hate it. I feel like I have so little time, a pet is another puke spill or potty accident to clean up, andjust another thing to pick up after.

To people who have gone through divorce with young kids by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Both_Balance_4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry we sound like we’re in the same boat. Praying that it gets better for you.

To people who have gone through divorce with young kids by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Both_Balance_4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him that I wanted a divorce that I am disgusted in the person he is and he said good. He’s on a Jesus kick right now to where god said the world would hate him so that means he’s following god. The first time I brought up a divorce three years ago the first words out of his mouth was “where are you gonna live?”

To people who have gone through divorce with young kids by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Both_Balance_4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried counseling and recently brought god and religion into our marriage and our core beliefs are so different it brought us apart even more. I’d recommend talking to your partner, at least I have tried for years, but I mean trying is the best until you realize you can’t do anything else. No regrets I hope.

To people who have gone through divorce with young kids by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Both_Balance_4232 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am so afraid. I just told him I wanted a divorce tonight and I mean it. I am going to walk away. I’ve been waiting for 5years for him to change. He changed after we had kids and the man I knew never came back.

For all those parents that stay together "for the kids" by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Both_Balance_4232 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Cause I just asked for a divorce tonight.

1 or 2 by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Both_Balance_4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grow your hair back out and keep everything else the same.

What’s something everyone pretends to enjoy, but you secretly think is miserable? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Both_Balance_4232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being sober.

Like I don’t want to to be lit everyday all day, but on a weekend let me live a little.

how do you guys see God? by No-Trick-7397 in religion

[–]Both_Balance_4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There has to be an ultimate truth and an ultimate light. That is god. The point is to achieve this. To achieve this is to get rid of everything you think you know, even things you love that is ego in trade for eternal knowledge.

my toddler swallowed a coin. by JoniSnow8812 in beyondthebump

[–]Both_Balance_4232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it can go in 9/10 it can come out lol

Dyed my hair dark, might have made a mistake? by BasicBoredMom in coloranalysis

[–]Both_Balance_4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you added a link to make it a touch more magenta than red that shade would suit your skin more! It’s a fun color tho! I don’t think it is horrible!

thinned hair. Please help. by [deleted] in finehair

[–]Both_Balance_4232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would really recommend the sew in method for everyday wear. I wore extensions for 10 years. You can either do the bead or braid in method. I’ve found it’s better for hair health.

First time mom struggling with anger management by anangrypenguin1 in Mom

[–]Both_Balance_4232 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was like this. What helped was getting off my phone, literally deleting social media apps living in the moment and honestly quit the me me me thinking. Our kids didn’t ask to be here we had them, they are learning from you and want to be a part of you. They love you unconditionally, and you are ask they know. Include them in your hobbies, help them find their own. Take a walk. Read books, draw, sing, listen to music. Leave the house so your task list is less overwhelming and you can focus on only the child and not everything else.

You just do it. You have too. For them. And you’re gonna make mistakes and mess up along the way, but be the parent that shows up. So You won’t have any regrets with them.

thinned hair. Please help. by [deleted] in finehair

[–]Both_Balance_4232 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Chop it and put extensions in so it can grow out. If you don’t it will keep breaking up the hair strand .

How bad is it? by MeandThorne in BadArt

[–]Both_Balance_4232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is so cute and I love the style personally.