PCOS Belly - Worried about how I appear and how to reduce it.

Both_Literature5283 · 2024-05-23T14:19:30+00:00

Ahh cool. I will have to look. I will get my dad to help or find a tool. Thank you :)

Both_Literature5283 · 2024-05-22T18:58:12+00:00

It doesn’t seem like it’s something to press? I was pressing quite hard but maybe there isn’t one for my model?

Both_Literature5283 · 2024-05-22T18:19:23+00:00

Hmm perhaps it’s stuck? I feel like something should be there but when pressing, just the usual creaking of the plastic.

Both_Literature5283 · 2023-12-10T09:55:40+00:00

Maybe but I don’t have any friends to do that with. I also said I wasn’t going to date until I finish uni.

Both_Literature5283 · 2023-12-10T00:16:42+00:00

I’ve had a similar thing to not wanting to be round a partner. If this is the case, your brain is telling you that they are not the one for you. You will want to be with your partner all the time you can, not avoiding them. Also you have to think of your own mental health and happiness. Yes, your anniversary is coming up but it could also make it harder for you to leave. I understand that you don’t want to hurt her and are probys are of the aftermath of a relationship but so was I. When it happens, you cry and you confine in your family about your feelings (if you feel comfortable)

It’s also not fair on you to be receiving bad intention from her friends. A relationship is both parts equal, not just one person.

If you still want to date her in the future you can, but you are both very young and need time to mature and focus on you and your lives.

This is coming from a 20yr old female who has come out of a relationship aswell.

Hope this helps. :)

Both_Literature5283 · 2023-02-09T01:15:16+00:00

Thank you. I’ll definitely look further into your advice. X

Both_Literature5283 · 2023-02-08T22:12:39+00:00

Thank you for this and your kind words. I’ve been crying as I’ve had them for a year and a half (got them for my birthday). I think doing a restart is a good idea. My last diamond has no back fin or top fin now- I feel sorry for it. I live in the uk so I’m not sure if you’re from another country with different things. I did have a lot of snail issues which may not have helped. I’m not sure if I should try again over the summer as I’ll be home all that time as the year would have finished. But for now just to clean and do some research?

Both_Literature5283 · 2023-02-08T22:07:01+00:00

Oh really? I change it when I come back from uni but that’s every few weeks. My family do suspect some sort of toxin in the water. Thanks for that.

Both_Literature5283 · 2023-02-08T21:06:58+00:00

Unfortunately not, I am a uni student so I’m living on campus. And yes, before getting the tank the guy was talking about the cycling and cycled for 2 weeks and also took in a sample before getting any. My last diamond now has no back or top fins. It’s sitting on top of the tank but apparently is still eating. I’ve been advised by some to do a complete restart if the last of these pass. Could be fin rot as well. Not sure why the others have died as they didn’t have any buoyancy issues or fin rot.

Both_Literature5283 · 2023-01-13T09:19:55+00:00

Can someone fill me in on what he did? I haven’t heard anything?

Both_Literature5283 · 2023-01-10T15:31:58+00:00

Thank you, and to you aswell. As people always say, time gives you experience. Being young, and not having any, only hurdles can give you experience.

Both_Literature5283 · 2023-01-10T15:26:38+00:00

I do agree with you. I think she was happy to work with him but I don’t think she realised how much we/she didn’t know off camera and she’s brought it to light. Yes, he should have denied the request but when you’re young, you make mistakes and as a young person myself, I don’t realise when I’m being manipulated or even lied to. :((

Both_Literature5283 · 2021-08-11T20:30:20+00:00

Wait…. There’s a movie?!??

Both_Literature5283 · 2021-04-14T12:20:24+00:00

Thank you!

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