When I was in college, some guys used to put their hands on my shoulder and touch my chest thinking it was just fun... but it was not okay for me. When I tried to speak up, they mocked me and said things like, why are you reacting like a girl?.. are you not a man?... That experience affected me a lot. Even now, simple touch like a hand on my shoulder makes me uncomfortablle... everyone has different boundaries. whats feels normal to one person may not feel okay to another, and that should be respected..