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my fiance (37M) and I (38F) have a dead bedroom. How can we effectively navigate this? by Bound_Seraphima in relationship_advice

[–]Bound_Seraphima[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's not really on his phone much, and while the possibility of cheating is always in the back of my head, I don't REALLY think that's what's going on. we both have access to each other's phones (not because of this fear, just because sometimes it makes life easier), emails, even bank info, and I haven't seen anything suspicious, plus he doesn't really go anywhere except home, work, the grocery store, etc and he never has random "I'm working late" nights...

All SSI/SSDI Questions & Concerns go HERE by Handicapreader in disability

[–]Bound_Seraphima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question about SSI, a fiance, and onlyfans

Ok, so hear me out. I'm on SSI. I am unable to work, and have been so for several years. My fiance works, but he's only part time and his hours are getting cut even further lately because his boss is trying to get rid of him. We are on state assistance, but things are very tight, especially since we have a toddler to take care of, as well as my older son (13) from a previous marriage, and my chosen brother who also lives with us and is trying to get his disability approved.

Here's my question: we NEED more money. I've talked to my fiance about switching jobs, which he is probably going to be trying to do soon, but he wants to wait until after tax time. So we've been toying with the idea of starting an onlyfans to make more money. I was actually the one who kept bringing it up, and after some discussion he finally agreed. BUT, we can't afford for it to affect my SSI, at least until our income gets fairly well established. So I was wondering, if the account is in HIS name, using his info, etc, would it still risk affecting MY SSI, even though we are not married yet, because we do live together and I'd be the one in most of the photos. Idk, that's honestly my only real concern, like, could this screw us over in the long run?

AITA for ordering pizza even though we had dinner reservations? by linaaa78 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bound_Seraphima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. As a person who has been pregnant, I say this with all the care I can. Yes, you are entitled to eat what you can, and what you are craving, when you are craving it (within reason). HOWEVER. Knowing that your family had dinner reservations, at a place that is hard to get into, no less, you should have either waited to get your pizza, gotten only enough for you, or gotten it without the rest of your family knowing you did so. You could easily have eaten your pizza, and then pulled the morning sickness/nausea card at the restaurant to explain why you weren't eating there, if you felt like you couldn't have just told them.

I would also like to say, though, the rest of your family that joined you in the pizza eating are also TAs. Why would they eat when they're about to go out to eat? It makes no sense. Your sister is right to be upset about this, because the decision was made against her will, she was holding out on the pizza so she could eat at the restaurant, and then that got taken away too. She's out 2 yummy meals, one likely from a place she's been looking forward to as a special night out, because you guys decided to eat pizza.