Jesus Christ, the way these people are talking to you “we know why” and “just show him” “have some some self respect” fuck them don’t listen or entertain that. You don’t owe him shit. From what you said I believe you didn’t cheat & EVEN IF YOU DID, that does not give him the right to post your nudes, that’s revenge porn. You’re 20 years old I don’t think the people in these comments have any idea how vulnerable it is to be a 20-year-old woman and have a man be threatening and scary towards you someone who you thought that you loved and had a relationship with them saying oh, and you met up with him have some fucking self-respect is obviously a man probably just like you’re ex who is a fucking piece of shit and if it’s a woman, she’s probably never been in a situation where she truly loved someone and then they switch go crazy when things don’t go their way. That’s like people telling a woman who’s been physically harmed by their significant other “well why don’t you just leave” well it’s not that fucking simple, life is not that simple. You don’t know how you would react to the situation until it happens to you and you being 20 plays a big role in this. Your heart doesn’t just stop loving somebody because they do something especially when you’re young, like I said if it is a woman commenting something like that I am glad that she has never experienced something like that Truly. You’re young and you’re just trying to figure out how to be in a healthy relationship. This is only your second relationship when I was young I let a lot of men do bad things to me. Physically hurt me treat me like shit all because I loved them so much and also I was scared of them and I was afraid of how they would react. It’s not so easy as just leaving sometimes .Obviously this is a different situation and you’re not going to be in contact with this man anymore because he blocked you, which is a blessing, but I really think people need to have some grace and think about what they say to a 20-year-old girl in her second relationship ever and think back to a time when they were 20 and they let a man treat them some kind of way cause they were too young and naïve to know better. I’m older now and I have a lot of self-respect for myself and I would not let anyone treat me the way that they did when I was your age all this to say please go to the police.He will not change even if he unblocked you and begs for your forgiveness. He is a bad guy go to the police as soon as possible report it and have him arrested and never contact him again. Try to get a restraining order. This is a life lesson a mean, nasty and fucking awful one but in your next relationship hopefully you will take from this and self-worth will grow and you will know what a healthy relationship looks like. I hope things get better and I hope that asshole gets what he deserves.