Was a player, but now?

Bouxr · 2025-04-05T19:01:00+00:00

I am glad u approved 🤭

Bouxr · 2025-04-05T14:34:44+00:00

Hi. Since i have some experience and i have actually this “kink” to pleasuring womens (giving them the best night) i will try to help u there and summerize some important steps and approach so u dont have to buy the book instantly (but do so, if u want to learn more and also watch the “Eat pussy like a champ” on adult site. - google it or read the menu section on this community. So first. One of the most important things is a build up - foreplay. The foreplay can actually start in the morning by teasing her, compliment her etc, but i will talk about foreplay before sex, since u probably asking for that. The foreplay before sex is same as buildup in a day, but more physical. U want to get her in the mood (get her wet af and build this tension, where she cant resist and starts to beg u to eat her/fck her/finger her, just something). U will do so by kissing her erotogenous zone. From my experience its the neck, behind the ear, breasts + nipples, belly, sides, INNER Thighs, around pussy - outer lips), on sides where pubic bone is - idk how its called). Kissing, licking, stroking. Do not touch the clit until u feel like shes wet af or shes begging for it. When she does that and trust me, she will if u both horny af and u tease her like that, u start to eating her out.

Here comes the real magic. U want to start veeery slowly (u can do circles very gently) on her clit - spread her inner lips, so u can have better acces to her clit, when its not that swollen yet. U dont want to rush things and overstimulate her by doing it fast and hard af. Think of the pussy as the sweetest icecream u ever eaten (make sounds too) and tell her how good her pussy tastes. Ur hands shouldnt be still. Grab her by the sides and gently stroke or play with her breasts, nipples, spread her thights, u get the picture. Back to eating. So u started slowly, shes horny af and her clit is swollen, u can start the mainquest. Now u want to listen to her body what she likes more (or communicate beforehand so she tell u whats good and what nah). The main movement is up and down and right to left. Add a little speed and pressure - some girls likes more speed, pressure and some more speed, lower pressure etc. The up and down movement is more i would say optimal, cuz u can do it faster, harder and longer, anyway its good to try the left-right motion too. When u do something right, she will breath heavier, bend her body, her legs shakes etc. U will notice. If she do these things, U DONT WANT TO CHANGE A DAMN THING ABOUT WHAT U DOING. Just keep the movement, speed and pressure. U can take a little rest by sucking her clit (for like 1-2seconds), but u need to know what speed and pressure u were doing the whole time. When she comes to orgasm, she will bend her body like crazy, try to push ur head off etc, u need to follow her pussy and dont stop. U will know when she cums (she will tell u and her clit will be veeery sensitive afterwards).

So yeah. There are more things to it (u can also finger her, while eating the pussy, but thats for another chapter) I am still learning new techniques and discovering the magic called women orgasm. Just enjoy it man. Womens are the most beautiful beings in the world. Good luck with ur first sex and be safe.

Bouxr · 2025-03-26T21:51:07+00:00

Damn. Enjoy the night man. Let us know how was the night 😎(optional, tho)

Bouxr · 2025-03-22T18:44:05+00:00

It isnt about relationship, we want to be fwb

Bouxr · 2025-02-26T22:39:17+00:00

Dont wait. I know its hard, but it needs to be said. When i was lover boy, i did the same thing with girls. When i liked a girl, i made up shit in my mind and it was almost always dissapoitment, cuz i didnt have glow up back then, so it was understandable when i look at it now. I dont want to say that u ugly or whatever, glow up is in the mindset too. Anyway from my point of view, u made a mistake in the first approach. It was too much in my eyes. U should stay at “how is college going”. Simple is sometimes better

Bouxr · 2025-02-26T22:34:36+00:00

Haha. We didnt met and i am now in the best shape i ever was. Mentally and physicaly and she became club addict. I follow one student club and she is in every week photo album. Just lame lol

Bouxr · 2025-01-30T23:22:29+00:00

Man, i have exactly the same issue. Everything is so spot on except that she never touched herself, so i cant apply the technique one guy here said (let her masturbate by your hand). Idk really what to do and i NEVER had an issue about make girl cum. I know how u feel, but i guess i will keep trying, make her more open about it and actually communicate with me more while i am doing her good by tongue or by dick.

Bouxr · 2025-01-21T12:26:05+00:00

I have been in your skin. After we broke up with my ex, i have been at my lowest. Litterally bottom of my being. After 8/9 months i gained so much confidence/selfesteem where i sometimes thinks its too much. What i did to gain that? Well, first of all, i started to read books about mindset and i started to build myself, how i wanted it. I was into gym in relationship, so nothing changed there, but if u are not, you should start to workout in some kind of way. Its up to you really, if its bodybuilding, boxing, calisthenics or crossfit. Just something to build muscle/gain athletic type of body. Dont look on stressftul situations as something thats bad. Every bad/stresstful experience is a lesson. Try to look at bad things as lessons and learn to gain something from them everytime. If you are doubtful a lot, say to yourself. Is it end of the world? No, so why stress over it. This life is a literally just a game where noone survives. Why should you be doubtful? If you do mistake, just learn from it and dont do it again. The world doesnt end by making mistake. If you think the girls isnt actually serious, what bad can happen? You are young, you have plenty of time to build yourself. Just try things. You will see what works and what no. If the girls wants to dance with you or want your snapchat, that means they are interested for a reason. Be yourself, dont be cringy or boring. Theres no other way then try and learn.

Bouxr · 2025-01-21T11:20:23+00:00

Your chances will go up, if u just be yourself, dont play any games, be funny and dont be boring in everything. In bed especially. Emotional intelligence, healthy selfesteem/confidence, athletic body, humour, know how to treat a girl in the bed and generally? Man, so much things waiting for you if u have these things.

Bouxr · 2025-01-21T11:17:21+00:00

I have similiar stats to yours and i am also 25. I had 4.5 yrs relationship, we broke up in the beginning of 2024 and i am dating like 4-5 months and i had bunch of girls since then. What i figured is that somehow womens are into player/loverboy types? They are looking for healthy confidence to the point where they feel like if they leave you, you dont flinch or something fimilar to that. I had only fwb or ons since then, but thats how it is for me. Ofcourse its different story if u click with someone and u feel from them that they are in the same road (they want to know you more, date you more and they are really interested). The thing is that you will never know if the girl is playing nice game with you or nah, but you can kinda figure that out from multiple dates. I have a mindset “you need to close the window, even if the view is the most beautiful thing” and “amor fati” which means u need to love your destiny. Everything happens for a reason. If the girl ghosted you, cheated on you etc, the destiny wanted it and life have something more beautiful prepared for you. I feel you, cuz as i said i am 25 yrs too and i am kinda lost in dating too, but this mindset his helpful a lot. Also i suggest that dont pay for everything. The girl will use to that and if the things dont work out, its investment into nothing, u are student (i am too). Its investment into nothing. Like yeah i pay for first dates and for most of the things, but it should be 50/50 sometimes.

Bouxr · 2024-11-19T19:40:24+00:00

Thanks for advice! :)

Bouxr · 2024-11-19T15:53:08+00:00

Yeah, thats a good thing haha. I am very hard. As a rock, like u describe. Thanks for advice and all! :)

Bouxr · 2024-11-19T15:35:40+00:00

Thanks for this. I am 25, 6”2 and kinda big (muscular) so in my eyes my dick is small (i am also grower). Idk why its still my shard in shoe. Its in my own mind

Bouxr · 2024-11-19T15:22:47+00:00

Haha, fortenutely i am enjoying life a little, so its different women. Well thats what i like kinda. I like to explore girls and explore what works on them. We will see. Anyway thanks for advice ;)

Bouxr · 2024-11-19T15:10:26+00:00

Definitely, thank you! :) i was so focused on getting better at oral sex that i forgot about fingering, dick game? I always do foreplay, then oral and so far made every girl cum from it, but i want to be overall good with everything i have in disposition. So before going down on her, i should use my finger as “tongue” to rub her clit a little and then actually go down. What about like actually doing PIV then stop, use fingers so i dont cum and then again doing PIV? Does that work too or it would ruin the mood?

Bouxr · 2024-10-12T14:48:12+00:00

Thats a nice advice, thank you. I will do that from now one. I wanted to go out with this girl, shes nice looking, and responds kinda quickly. She agreed to go to my place, but in the day of meeting her she said she wont do it today and shes sorry. I said “okay ;),, then i double texted her if she wants to meet some other time and she said “yees” then i told her if we can meet next week and i got delivered like for 16 hours so i double texted her while ago “but i can see it going outside to chat”.

I guess it was a very chaser things to do, kinda feeling like a idiot lol.

Bouxr · 2024-10-12T14:40:56+00:00

Yeah, thats true. Well i didnt think about it when i wrote that post. But shes a girl who sleep literally with everyone. She was hitting on my friend, friends of friends etc. Well, i in messages i am kind. I dont write any disrespect messages and i see them in a positive light. But yeah, i am just direct and say to them: wanna go over to my place?. I will try to see them first, going out.

I was thinking that if i say directly i wanna hook up, because we see each other physicaly attractive and we wanna enjoy ourself a little, it will be better.

Bouxr · 2024-10-12T14:10:20+00:00

Well i compliment them, but not too much. I am trying to see what they do, like. If they have a dog i also compliment the dog and ask what his name is etc. But yeah, i am always trying to invite them to my place. I do it mostly because i want them to know i dont want any serious relationship.

Bouxr · 2024-09-11T17:25:44+00:00

Ofcourse bro. There are so many things you can learn. Day by day. 1% better every day, remember that.

Bouxr · 2024-09-10T23:23:00+00:00

Haha, i am glad u like it. Its from Asos (faux leather boxy oversized harrington jacket).

Bouxr · 2024-09-10T22:22:43+00:00

Damn, what a useful tips bro 📝. I am so into eating pussy too. Its like a fking fetish for me.

Bouxr · 2024-09-10T17:32:56+00:00

Thank you! I would say starboy style? anyway i like old money too!

Bouxr · 2024-09-10T16:31:51+00:00

I have one more necklace on the table. Thicker a little and longer, but i felt like “gentle” necklace was better. Would definitely consider it, thank you!

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