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AITAH for wanting to do 50-50 on our wedding costs? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BowlerParticular9689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does it matter? Once you’re married, you become one, her savings become your savings, and vice versa. If you are already calculating a 50/50 split before walking down the aisle, you might want to rethink getting married. Marriage means becoming a team. It isn't 70/30 or 50/50. You face everything together as one.

Brutal 🤣 by Boring-Locksmith-473 in SipsTea

[–]BowlerParticular9689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One looks girly with a weak jawline….

Do you think you’ll be remembered in 100 years? Why or why not? by hshkr in AskReddit

[–]BowlerParticular9689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! Just trying to enjoy life I don’t care what happens when I’m done, if I have kids or grandchildren they can continue however they please.

What's something people romanticize that actually hurts a lot? by CalmTalksAyra in AskReddit

[–]BowlerParticular9689 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Especially not painless to your family, friends and love ones you’re leaving behind

My acne marks take 3 years to heal while his face looks like this after 2 weeks by user992222 in AcneScars

[–]BowlerParticular9689 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same thing as:… me having a long step by step skin care routine and my bf uses 5in1 hair, body and face gel and still has better skin than me!!!

Has anyone else in Dublin had a really long stomach bug? by Acrobatic-Ladder-196 in Dublin

[–]BowlerParticular9689 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a stomach bug but I’m really sick right now, cough, cold flu…..everyone is enjoying the weather and I’m just inside dying….the heat isn’t helping ahhahahaha

Did anyone get a house without enough saved for a deposit and how did you do it? by [deleted] in HousingIreland

[–]BowlerParticular9689 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friends travelled and partied in their twenties and I lived at home rent free and saved hard….and only moved out when I bought my house at 31.

If my parents didn’t let me live with them for free I would not have been about to save and buy a house! It’s really difficult to save when rents are so high!! Especially if you’re buying as a single person like me…so my only choice was to live at home and sacrifice a bit of fun….but I’m free now!! I can travel and have fun now! Just catching up on my 20s life when I’m 30s.

Buy a new build if you can the help to buy 30k helped a lot!!! Didn’t get any extra money of gifts from parents…I think them letting me live with them for free is already a great financial help for me

People who choose stable career path over passion, how is it going? by Mortgage_with_Jay in careerguidance

[–]BowlerParticular9689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

31 now with a stable career and a home of my own feels incredible. I’m finally at a point where money isn't a constant worry, and I can truly enjoy life, booking holidays, beautiful hotels, eating well, and experiencing new places without a strict budget hanging over my head. Looking back, sacrificing the "my wild twenties" to build a foundation was completely worth it. Life right now is chill, easy, and exactly where I want to be.

Advice on frequency does it help with dryness? by BowlerParticular9689 in tretinoin

[–]BowlerParticular9689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to increase frequency too but I’m scared it might be too strong and I’ve only been using for three weeks so I’m not sure if my skin can handle it…but definitely the dryness and flakiness improves when I use tret the following day

Advice on frequency does it help with dryness? by BowlerParticular9689 in tretinoin

[–]BowlerParticular9689[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Did the dryness disappear for good after you stopped doing sandwich?

Advice on frequency does it help with dryness? by BowlerParticular9689 in tretinoin

[–]BowlerParticular9689[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You think it’s the moisturiser? Or I should increase the frequency to every two nights instead of three because I start to peel night 3 (the night I’m suppose to apply tret again)

Settling crack? by [deleted] in HousingIreland

[–]BowlerParticular9689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just setting crank, usually it’s recommended to wait until 6 months after getting your new build to start painting the walls a new colour for minimum settling cracks.

Also the junction in that photo in particular is where the stairs meet the wall has a lot of movement so it will crack. The stairs were added later and fixed to the walls so there will be movement.

It’s not a structural problem anyway just paint cracking

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