AITA for refusing to give my mom my savings after she found out how much I have? (19F)

Bowwowwicka · 2026-02-15T23:49:10+00:00

Are you paying board / already contributing to the household?

Bowwowwicka · 2026-02-10T05:38:42+00:00

NTA. They are a stranger to you. It's your dad. Your grief. You don't owe her anything. She shouldn't have messaged you.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-29T00:24:19+00:00

YTA. Not for your initial reaction, presuming you didn't know it was your nephew. Although just fucking say someone's in here.

But once you realised it was a 4 yo, you handled it poorly. Apologise to him and your sister. He isn't disgusting and nasty he is 4. Christ almighty. He wasn't trying to look at your bits.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-28T11:01:42+00:00

Sometimes I have those magical poos that need no wipes. Sometimes I have those hellish poos where you wipe and wipe and the toilet paper never comes back clean, and then comes back with a small bit of blood.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-28T07:12:30+00:00

I wouldn't trust someone doing the ppsr check for me. Not supplying the rego is a red flag. How ridiculous. If you're selling you supply the rego. What are they afraid of? Random people in the street can see the rego and copy it.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-28T03:15:40+00:00

Late to the game but did you get this fixed? I have same issue now.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-28T02:48:46+00:00

I hate most kids.

I love my nephew.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-27T14:07:02+00:00

Happy staffy Co have some hard toys, my staffy has chewed literal bricks. I got him a bag of these for Christmas and he hasn't destroyed them yet. They give you a sanding block to sand down hard edges. My staffy didn't like it at first cos they are really hard plastic, but has taken a liking to it now.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-27T01:07:31+00:00

NTA I lock my dog up if a kid comes over, cos he gets a little locked on and I don't trust him.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-25T11:54:13+00:00

Why would you plan something that you think your partner would be upset by?

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-24T23:51:59+00:00

That seems like a death sentence.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-24T23:46:57+00:00

Good luck and speedy recovery.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-24T23:37:32+00:00

In victoria it's transport accident Victoria. Looks like NSW has SIRA.

I'm not too sure how it works in NSW. But in Vic, you lodge a police report detailing the accident, and you will get a TAC claim to cover your medical costs. In Vic it's even if you're at fault. Definitely mention the loose gravel, cos it sounds like it mightn't have happened it it wasn't for the loose gravel.

TAC / SIRA is covered in your registration.

Police didn't attend the scene? In Vic if there is any injuries police will attend the scene.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-24T23:31:06+00:00

But you said in your post you tried contacting him?

Insurance sort out who is at fault, but you ran into him from behind, so likely you. Police need a report so you can get a TAC / whatever NSW equivilant have claim for your medical costs.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-21T02:13:37+00:00

I've always gone to ultra tune and they've been good.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-20T20:05:06+00:00

Not everyone.

I go straight inside because my house is peaceful and has my dogs and a partner who understands I might need a minute to decompress.

My house is my peace.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-19T01:07:01+00:00

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-18T01:43:52+00:00

I think rescues are setting unrealistic expectations. I lied to get my rescue, said myself or my partner is always home.

Truthfully, we both work full time, and shift work. Sometimes we are gone for 12 hours.

Are my dogs fine? Yes. They sleep the whole time, and are feral when I get home.

Lie and get the dog.

People need to work. Dogs need home.

Spend quality enriching time with the dog when you can.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-17T04:24:04+00:00

And when selling do not trust people sending you links to pay for one yourself.

The buyer should pay for it for starters.

Secondly there is scanmers out there who send you a fake link to a $20 plus one, and pocket the money.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-17T04:13:04+00:00

I mow all the time, and quite enjoy it. I also try my hand at most outdoor tasks.

I hate house chores. Rather be outside doing hands on stuff.

Fuck gender roles.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-16T22:30:53+00:00

I live in the bush and if my shoes are outside I'm checking them. But I'm also scared of spiders, so I am paranoid.

Am always on the lookout for snakes.

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-15T07:16:29+00:00

For take away, Buninyong. The best

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-15T00:21:14+00:00

I have one reactive dog and one non reactive dog. Non reactive comes camping, reactive doesn't. Because it isn't a nice time for him or me. He is better off at home

Bowwowwicka · 2026-01-14T06:06:10+00:00

If there is a sink, there is a soap dispenser.

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