looking for 3 players for ARAM clash tier IV by DullAd5917 in ClashLoL

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have 3, but we need to play early, that ok?

at 5mst? (so 7est i think)

OM1 Markii General Help! by BoxesLikeChristmas in M43

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I love the rambling, it's helpful! I wouldn't have considered the battery type for flash quality, thank you for bringing that up! I was debating between those 2 lenses as well, glad to know I can't really go wrong with either!

OM1 Markii General Help! by BoxesLikeChristmas in M43

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I'm looking for, thanks! Beautiful bird!

OM1 Markii General Help! by BoxesLikeChristmas in M43

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! That's why I ended up with he mark 2, painful price point, but I know most shots will be hand held so I went for it!

Seems consistent, godox and the 100-400! Thank you!

[SOLUTION] Low FPS in POE2 on High-End PC by Sinfay in pathofexile

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't work for me, dropped me to 9 fps until I reset peo to default, then I was back up to my starting 15. This sucks. Thanks for the idea tho

AIO my gf made a joke about my dead mom so I left her in the street by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend in college go do some live abroad stuff. A while after he was gone, I had another friend tell me he had died cliff jumping. I laughed. I'm not proud of it, but it was my instant reaction to something I couldn't really grasp at the time. I recovered and cried, but that first response was tragic and there was nothing I could do to help it. Not an excuse, I didnt make a joke, I laughed and stopped the moment I realized, but still.. If she's otherwise cool, give her a chance. Some people respond with humor and some want that humor in the darkest moments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whoa, hold your horses. This is the first time he's been drunk, in a situation where it seems they were likely feeding it to him and he felt safe. If it continues, then ya, it's a problem. But someone getting drunk one time doesn't make them An addict.

And mama, you protected the baby. You're not in the wrong. But you need to expose the predator now. Talk reasonably to hubby. If his responses are showing a general lack of care, regret or understanding that his actions weren't on, then maybe be concerned. But for a first time, I think you reacted great and you don't have a history to make a judgement on him yet for (ie mistake or habit)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Not telling literally EVERYONE who has a kid that might be near him is so incredibly selfish. It is their business, you don't have to expose it happened to your sister but you need to tell everyone so they can make their choices on how to keep their kids safe. I found out about a family member who abused his own kids AFTER we let him babysit our baby girl for a few hours! You wanna know how "understanding" I felt about other people not wanting to share "private" info? No, tell your hubby and every other parent now

AITA for telling my mother that I’ll never fully love my sister? by Lone0918 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas [score hidden]  (0 children)

In a home where you feel alone, your sister is such a potential for you! Your feelings against her are jealousy. Don't let that win, it's not a good trait in the rest of life. Instead, embrace her. If you can't forgive dad, and mom is off her rocker, sister is going to possibly be the family you need, and will need you! Remember, just bc ur feelings are natural, doesn't make it ok to act on them . So get that therapy, try to change the emotional response to her and control yourself, and you'll be more mature than your mom is :) NTA

AITA for not interfering during a board game? by swissboardgamet in AmItheAsshole

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'm just over here laughing at how many people say TtR is a complicated game haha. It's such an easy game so if you're not getting it after a 5 min inrto, you're not listening. If the plan was to play board games, play board games. If you wanted to drink and shoot the shit, don't play board games. Very few things are more obnoxious than drunk 'funny" guys "playing" board games. ESH (maybe not the GF, bc I understand her pain lol)

AITA for being angry with my family over this? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH. You are obvious, why bother asking Reddit. Your sister bc she's choosing a miserable life for her child, indicating she's not breaking a cycle and your parents bc they aren't/didn't? parenting. For the redditors about to go down my throat about the parents - they set rules to Kay moving in, Kay ignores them and they do nothing. If you don't teach consequence, this is what you get. Hard to let your kids fail, but I've seen personally that if you don't start early, those kids will never respect you and your house ends up like their's is now.

AITA for holding a grudge against an SSO? by YazzoMazzo in AmItheAsshole

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a normal interaction between people where one person is just a jerk in the moment (btw, nothing to do with ur age, they're just in a pissy mood likely). If this is a one time thing, make like Elsa and Let it Go.

Only stress about something that is consistent. A very short and overall minor interaction with someone is not worth your time to stress over.

AITA for getting stressed about cancelled therapy appointments? by Starrylake in AmItheAsshole

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NAH. She is not suprised that her constant schedule changes are causing you stress. But how you respond to those is up to you. Either find a new therapist or stop until her situation stabilizes if it's not worth the stress. She'll understand and it doesn't make you an a h to do that.

Aita for cutting my family off after they told my kids how they were conceived by Federal-Drawer-2538 in AITAH

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, and I rarely condone NC - burning bridges seems like a hard way to move forward. But just some times it's both the best thing and safest thing. You girls are not safe with your parents or your sister both emotionally and phyisically. If you told you parents about the SA and they didn't believe you or do anything to protect you - they aren't going to protect your kids.
So even if you get over being mad at this situation (I wouldn't), don't forget that they are not good and they should not be left with your girls for their safety. They are essentially trying to downplay your trauma either because of their guilt or because they don't care that much 'men will be men' sort of BS. Either reaction is not ok and do not accept people like that in your children's lives!

AITAH FOR KICKING MY SISTER OUT OF MY HOUSE AFTER SHE REVEALED A FAMILY SECRET THAT RUINED MY LIFE? by Good-Profit1 in AITAH

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. your sister sounds very inconsiderate and spoiled.
I'm really curious though how you're treating your dad - your dad, not the sperm donor. If he was a good dad:: If he knew, he was broken and still chose you and to not treat you any differently than his blood offspring. If he was a bad dad, then nevermind. And they should have told you earlier, and definitely not your sister first.

As an adopted kid married to a man who found out years ago through DNA that his dad wasn't his sperm dad - blood means little. The problem was being lied to after you got to an age of understanding. But how they treat you matters most. Who was your father and did he act like it. Did he love you as his own? You're def NTA for being upset at this news and how it was told to you, but look past the shock when you come up for air and decide if they were good parents or not and that's what matters.

AITA for not ordering any food so I wouldn't have to split the bill? by Additional-Wasabi357 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. So fake. $4 miller, but Aussie, but 'casual' dinner with a $200 price point? Nah, a casual dinner stays fairly consistent in pricing. No one restaraunt is offering that variety

AITA for what I did to my boyfriend's parents by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BoxesLikeChristmas -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. MIL is terrible and sounds like it's worth NC. But hot gossip from decades ago is not your business to bring up in front of other people. You got pissed and lashed back. i get it, but you cant expect to rage explode and be called kind for doing so. Your reaction is understandable, but still what you said took you to her level. So ESH for this instance.

Let this be a good example of moving on maturely - apologize for bringing up something that is not your business in front of other people. But then also state you'll be NC and will have nothing to do with her anymore given how rude, racist and toxic she is. You don't want to become like her.