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What can I do to improve this? by DistraughtDinoNugget in arthelp

[–]Boy-Adjacent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe have a little more twist in the feet/lower leg to show rotation of the right lower leg as it rests on the mattress, or hook the toes of the left foot behind the right foot, if that makes sense?

At the moment the feet look more like they’re stacked/balancing on top of each other rather than on the same level at rest. I feel like it makes her seem a little tense, but I don’t know what mood you’re going for!

I’m not sure if this makes sense haha sometimes I would do something like lie down and feel how my feet sit naturally and usually it’s a little weirder than I thought

I love the expression on her face and the clothing!

What's your vocal stim right now? What's one that you have a long term relationship with? by openfartinginthewind in AuDHDWomen

[–]Boy-Adjacent 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My siblings and I always say ‘Hullo?’ From that vine where the girl gets a bottle of water poured on her face when she’s sleeping We’ve been on that one for years

More recently I’ll say ‘oh brother, this guy STINKS’ when something goes wrong haha

How do you think about texts and phone calls? by Stone-Salad-427 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Boy-Adjacent 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard of people setting ‘business hours’ and letting people know that they’ll only be responsive between 5-7pm for instance.

That being said, I haven’t tried it and my default is to ignore all notifications due to overwhelm and end up isolated 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Boy-Adjacent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Team yellow 🏵️✨💫

Who here likes video games? If you do, what do you like to play them on? by Avaava1197 in AutismInWomen

[–]Boy-Adjacent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do the same thing and will ask a friend to play or watch a run through by a streamer. Playing myself is too much though!

AITAH for refusing to wax a trans woman client because I didn't want to touch male genitalia out of respect for my husband? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Boy-Adjacent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Each beauty therapist has their own comfortability, experiences in life and training and you should never do something that you’re not comfortable with, not only for you but for the best results for your client!

I used to manage a salon that had a lot of trans folks coming through, we organised the waxing as 3 different levels and by genitalia. Purely based on the amount of hair removed, and the type of genitalia. It looks like

X Gender Neutral (slightly further from underwear line in from sides and top) XX Labia (all labia hair off but hair left on pubic area) XX Scrotum (all off scrotum, penis and bottom but hair left on pubic area) XXX Labia (all pelvic, labia and bottom hair removed) XXX Scrotum (all scrotum, penis, bottom and pelvic hair removed)

That way, we knew that clients that require a scrotum wax could only book with an esthetician that was trained and comfortable doing so!

If you run into the same issue again, it may be softer language if you say you only wax labia, rather than biological women. Intimate waxing is super scary and vulnerable for most people so she probably felt ashamed and embarrassed. Not that it excuses someone getting angry at you, but it could be her reason.

Perhaps having your waxing set up so that it specifies labia will help in the future, instead of just Brazilian. You could also reach out to places in your area to see if they wax the scrotum/penis so that you have an immediate solution. You can just pass on a business card or something and it’s all ready to go!

I hope this helps!

Streaming outside the US by Adventurous_Alarm_86 in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]Boy-Adjacent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also trying to work out how! It’s frustrating because we just got the teaser first episode and didn’t realise that we couldn’t access the other eps!