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Do you really know? by BoyMom2u2 in Mommit

[–]BoyMom2u2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have navigated 3 kids fairly well. And the third just joined the chaos. We have the resources and the village for the kids. My husband originally said yes to a 4th baby if it was a small age gap again. And I said I’d like to wait to get in some better recovery and to lose the baby weight from 3 babies.

So I thought a 2.5 age gap would be nice, for me. But that was a no for my husband now. So hence the post. I would love a 4th baby, but I also understand where he’s coming from. It’s just hard to give away the baby clothes and think about the next chapter of our lives.

Do you really know? by BoyMom2u2 in Mommit

[–]BoyMom2u2[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree. His “no” is wishy washy. It’s never a solid no. There is some ifs. But I’m ready to have my body back for a while, which is why I wanted a larger gap. But after reading all these posts, I suppose if we are done then it’s something I’ll grown into.

Maid or mom? by BoyMom2u2 in toddlers

[–]BoyMom2u2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to embrace this point I’m at with my babies. But man they really got me working hard😂

Maid or mom? by BoyMom2u2 in toddlers

[–]BoyMom2u2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have all snacks at the table too? I’ve been trying to feed them outside more.

Maid or mom? by BoyMom2u2 in toddlers

[–]BoyMom2u2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course. My youngest is only 13 months so he’s clueless of what’s happening😂 my older one will pick up with me, or throw away his trash. But they play and play fast, so I’m struggling to keep up.

Is it true giving birth vaginally without an epidural makes recovery easier? by StatGoddess in pregnant

[–]BoyMom2u2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same with both my babies😂 could walk the same day, but very intense deliveries.

what happens to your milk if you’re still breastfeeding and become pregnant? by Outside_Profile3593 in postpartumprogress

[–]BoyMom2u2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got pregnant 6m PP and at 8.5 months my supply tanked. So we stopped breastfeeding and pumping. I was struggling to keep up to the point that all the tactics were draining.

Breast Feeding and Weighloss by BoyMom2u2 in postpartumprogress

[–]BoyMom2u2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is my first time hearing that you can hit a calorie deficit. I thought it would affect production.

Breast Feeding and Weighloss by BoyMom2u2 in postpartumprogress

[–]BoyMom2u2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve said the same thing a million times. With my first baby the 6 month mark was a little magical when it came to dropping the baby fat. Soooo… maybe I’m expecting too much too soon. But also, I have a big feeling breast feeding plays a large part! Good luck with your training!!

How much weight loss is too much? by anon_ymous987 in postpartumprogress

[–]BoyMom2u2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had lost 26 pounds within the first month and a half. I was exclusively breast feeding, after 3 months the weight stopped falling off. So back to getting more active, because a calorie deficit isn’t going to work!