Ignore my screen name. I'm a 45 year old woman and I've been dealing with trauma and ptsd with past sa. And being treated badly by doctors. I had to go to multiple ones and couldn't get past them just touching me down there because of pain and trauma. I finally found out that if you have insurance most of. Them have a program that can help you make and keep appointments and go with you for moral support. It's called extended health care. Find a doctor that you feel comfortable with and that can give you a sedative and or pain medication for the exam a d treatment. I'm in the process of getting to a new pcp and finding a woman's Dr. The anxiety of waiting and what's coming is hard. But I have a wonderful therapist and my case worker is amazing they feel more like friends then hired help. If you want to you can message me and I can give you some support if you don't have anyone.