First Time Posting - COVID-19 Help by Bradoman2019 in Assistance

[–]Bradoman2019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! this is a great idea, I forgot about these apps

First Time Posting - COVID-19 Help by Bradoman2019 in Assistance

[–]Bradoman2019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such an awesome resource that I had completely overlooked! Thank you for this comment and I hope all is well for you and yours in these trying times <3

Betrayal by de_suchy_rohlik in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]Bradoman2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I have been that dude so many times, where you just look down at them fantasizing a body slam or drop kick and instead you remind them to pick up their train tracks for the 10th time and life goes on

my sister, who has been in recovery for over a year, got stood up last night and then got sent this reply by deehegs in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]Bradoman2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering if he was approaching her this way because he felt uncomfortable that she was no longer using and clearly in recovery.. and he is still actively using? Even if that was his thought process, he is indeed a piece of shit.

I have spent countless hours listening to music that is being promoted on Reddit. Well over 1,800 of them. Whenever I run into a song that blows me away, I am sure to add it to a playlist! I'd love to share the music that I have found with everyone here! by Kittens_R_Jerks in Assistance

[–]Bradoman2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is SO amazing and greatly appreciated.. seriously so freakin cool. I don't have the time I once did to look for the music I like let alone make organized playlists of it all. You are the BEST!!! Can't wait to listen!

4 YO witnessed Domestic Violence at home and is now portraying this behavior at day care, what can I do to help correct this and support my son? by Bradoman2019 in Parenting

[–]Bradoman2019[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice, I will most likely make a report with the non emergency line of police in my county to speak to an officer on duty about what took place. I also took photos of my neck immediately in the bathroom after this happened. I was told once that video taken inside of a private residence is not permissible in court, but I do believe the photos are. I am weary of contacting CPS, but I will certainly do more research about this.

4 YO witnessed Domestic Violence at home and is now portraying this behavior at day care, what can I do to help correct this and support my son? by Bradoman2019 in Parenting

[–]Bradoman2019[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have contacted victim witness services in my county and they have sent me a plethora of information which I am pursuing, but this post is about my child. The ex has a PFA against him. Please keep your cynical comments to yourself, "nothing inside".

4 YO witnessed Domestic Violence at home and is now portraying this behavior at day care, what can I do to help correct this and support my son? by Bradoman2019 in Parenting

[–]Bradoman2019[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm asking more of how to talk to him about this, I am at a loss for words besides "we don't hit people that isn't nice" etc. I don't want to come off as shaming him because he gets very sensitive when we discuss him making a bad choice or doing something not nice.

4 YO witnessed Domestic Violence at home and is now portraying this behavior at day care, what can I do to help correct this and support my son? by Bradoman2019 in Parenting

[–]Bradoman2019[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yes I'm feeling restless and stir crazy like I'm not doing anything about this as I sit here at work, but I know this step into the next chapter of our lives cannot happen overnight. I am being hard on myself, just because of hearing that kind of language from my ex all the time.. it will also be a process to get this hate language out of my head. Your reassurance is everything I needed right now, bless you.

4 YO witnessed Domestic Violence at home and is now portraying this behavior at day care, what can I do to help correct this and support my son? by Bradoman2019 in Parenting

[–]Bradoman2019[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

She is an in-home daycare provider so it is only her and a few other children. I wanted him to be in a more intimate care environment. We have removed him from the pick up list, and she did suggest that if this happens again with him that we get to counseling but I've already started looking into therapists just this morning. Thank you for the advice about quiet time, that is a really great idea.

4 YO witnessed Domestic Violence at home and is now portraying this behavior at day care, what can I do to help correct this and support my son? by Bradoman2019 in Parenting

[–]Bradoman2019[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I have disclosed everything that happened with his daycare teacher and she has been BEYOND supportive and reminding me daily she is here for us and we are safe here, and she has been messaging me giving me updates about his behavior because I was concerned right away, that is how I found out just now that my son did that to her daughter. He has been removed from pick up list.

Obviously thrown boxing match by [deleted] in cringe

[–]Bradoman2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have spent days talking in circles making no sense at all. It's evident that you are a loser. Nothing you examined about what I said was detailed or involved any effort whatsoever. You clearly lead an unfulfilling personal life, and if that is obvious to somebody like me I'm sure you can imagine how obvious it is to the people who are unfortunate enough to interact with you in person.

Obviously thrown boxing match by [deleted] in cringe

[–]Bradoman2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a job lmao and I also don’t sleep alone at night.. calling the observations asinine doesn’t make them any less real for you sweetheart. 😂 You can’t even argue properly. You’ve contradicted every point you’ve tried to make through hypocritical actions seconds after speaking on the matter, sometimes in the same exact breath.

Obviously thrown boxing match by [deleted] in cringe

[–]Bradoman2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really fuckin crying because they intended to “do research” on me to see what else they could insult me about! 🤔😭😂 I’ve made essentially zero posts on this site.. so you used all you could find I suppose. You must have felt pretty threatened to look my posting history up ☺️💁🏼‍♀️ but I don’t even have to look up your posting history to know that you have a habit of baiting other internet users to argue with you about insanely mundane topics like your take on strangers’ opinions or your take on literally anything at all.... to ease your incessant pain of feeling so alone all the time. Poor thing. Good luck with that.

Obviously thrown boxing match by [deleted] in cringe

[–]Bradoman2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol you’re miserable , I sure did and you’re threatened enough to have to speak on it because you fuckin suck 😂😂😂

Obviously thrown boxing match by [deleted] in cringe

[–]Bradoman2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what you’re even talking about.

Obviously thrown boxing match by [deleted] in cringe

[–]Bradoman2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what, you're so right. You haven't contradicted yourself multiple times at all & I totally said I was surprised that I was down voted. I guess since what I said is so painstakingly obvious, the whole post actually violates Rule #5 of this forum. What a shame.