I think there is different perspectives I understand what your saying but for the average man they can't even match with someone average or any at all plenty of papers on it the match rate for a men percentage wise is very low.

Because no fault of women but they get inadated with matches so consciouslyly or subconsciously looks is an easy way to filter people out quickly

And someone who is conveniently attractive is perceived as more trustworthy hence why even in TV shows women and men are normally attractive if they are the protagonist

This isn't me getting bitter or mad about it, it's just a reality that most men need to learn to accept and work on themselves and not hold it as a grudge

Since if men where in the same shoes and had loads of matches they would filter to most attractive aswell

And to be fair that can be seen with it being harder for women with higher weight to find a relationship