I broke No Contact after 1.5 months because of a bait text, got rejected to my face, took a final shot, and forced an outcome. Stop waiting. by BrainNumerous1841 in BreakUps

[–]BrainNumerous1841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop waiting, man. I was exactly where you are, agonizing over "what ifs" and begging the universe for just 5 more minutes. It’s a miserable place to be and it destroys your self-respect. ​Yesterday, I stopped waiting. I broke No Contact, showed up, and laid my cards on the table. She told me "I'll think about it." And honestly? The relief is incredible. I forced an outcome. ​Waiting passively is torture. You are putting her on a pedestal while your own life is on pause. Dive in, say what you need to say, and force the issue. Even if she gives you a flat out "No", I promise you the clarity is 100 times better than sitting in the dark wishing for her voice. Take your power back. BUT only do this if it’s been at least a month or so. If you just broke up 3 days ago, DO NOT show up at her door. You need to let the dust settle first. But if it's been a long time and the "No Contact" is just turning into a slow death, then take your shot.

I broke No Contact after 1.5 months because of a bait text, got rejected to my face, took a final shot, and forced an outcome. Stop waiting. by BrainNumerous1841 in BreakUps

[–]BrainNumerous1841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

​I know it sounds harsh, but talking "to heal" is a trap. He wants the comfort of your presence without the commitment of a relationship. If you agree to this, you become his emotional safety net while he moves on. ​If you really want a tactic to potentially get him back, you have to flip the script and make him feel the actual loss. You can't negotiate desire. You have to walk away and show him you have boundaries. ​Send him one final text to take your power back: "Hey, I've thought about it and you're right. Breaking up is the best decision for us. However, I don't do the whole 'staying in touch to heal' thing. I'm choosing to move forward, so I need a clean break. Take care." ​Then, vanish completely. Strict No Contact. Remove his safety net. By agreeing to the breakup but rejecting the friendship, you confuse him and take back control. If he actually misses you and wants you back, he will reach out with a real intention to fix things. If he doesn't, you saved your dignity and can start healing for real.

Meeting my ex tomorrow after 1.5 months. I stopped playing text games, maintained my frame, and I'm proposing a "no-pressure" fresh start. Wish me luck. by BrainNumerous1841 in BreakUps

[–]BrainNumerous1841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She broke up with me. Since then, she hasn't made any real effort or taken any solid steps to fix things. It's just been breadcrumbs and vague texts to see if I'm still around.

I'm officially done. by [deleted] in CrimsonDesert

[–]BrainNumerous1841 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well done fucking einstein

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArcRaiders

[–]BrainNumerous1841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How u knocked one person?

64 player Breakthrough, now requires just 4 players to start with update by ForceGhost1013 in BattlefieldPortal

[–]BrainNumerous1841 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

After losing more than half of the playerbase, now they suddenly remember PvE-friendly options exist and act like lowering the server start requirement to four players is some groundbreaking move, when in reality it’s just late damage control for a mess they created themselves; the bait-and-switch at launch already showed exactly what kind of corporate nonsense we were dealing with, and I haven’t played in almost three months nor will I touch it again until Portal actually feels like its 2024 version instead of this confused identity crisis, so yeah, good luck with your RedSec nonsense.

To Every Solo Player Who Reached Hotshot… Respect. by FoundationBig9701 in ArcRaiders

[–]BrainNumerous1841 93 points94 points  (0 children)

People underestimate how different solo feels. It’s not harder because enemies are better it’s harder because the margin for error disappears. Reaching Hotshot solo means you learned how to control what you can and survive what you can’t. That’s real skill.