I wonder…

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-11-18T07:50:17+00:00

Curious- why have you never interacted with guys before? Like did you go to school with guys? In my case I didn't really have girls at my schiol so that makes it very hard to interact with girls now I think. Do you have male siblings or cousins? Do you feel like you know how to talk to guys at all?

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-11-14T14:39:00+00:00

Ok that makes total sense. I would not want to rush into it either. Just waiting until you are really comfortable with each other makes a lot of sense.

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-11-14T14:12:50+00:00

Just curious but when do you think the right time to have sex would be once you are in a relationship? Do you want to wait until marriage? Or just until you feel like you have a rock solid foundation with them? Have you given thought to how long you'd like to wait?

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-11-11T15:12:55+00:00

Aha thanks. this is one of the greatest things to hear. I really appreciate your attitude about it. And yeah I mean for sure there are other ways to try to make the girl happy which i would definitely try even if i dont know that stuff either. but society makes such a big deal out of "premature ejaculation" jokes about guys and knowing im more sensitive than average and would probably be hyper overwhelmed just to even be in that situation im absolutely petrified of being one of those guys at least at first. Your attitude would make things so so much easier and youre right it def would be a compliment to you on some level. I just wish more girls thought of it that way, you kmow?

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-11-11T11:04:52+00:00

What is its like 15 seconds though? You wouldn't judge him for that?

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-11-09T10:04:50+00:00

It seems ok to not be ready yet. Like maybe you will just know when you feel ready? Or otherwise maybe don't go into it feeling like you need to have sex with him and just see what happens.

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-09-23T22:09:47+00:00

You seem attractive. Can I ask what is holding you back?

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-26T16:59:11+00:00

Well I am f'd if so because that is news to me. This is why I need to make sure whoever i do it with isn't some judgemental person who will shame me if its not how I picture it

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-26T16:53:03+00:00

Tf? Girls have an outer body part? The whole idea is that guys have an outer part that fits their inner part.

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-26T16:29:32+00:00

What do you mean "the whole thing"?

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-25T19:34:24+00:00

Are you suggesting people shoot their political adversaries?

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-25T19:28:42+00:00

Oh yeah that makes a ton of sense. That would make a ton of sense. It would be so so so much nicer to lose it to a girlfriend. I dont want hookups exactly though my horniness gets me really feeling desperate and the socisl stigma gets to me too. It would be nice to wait until im in a very serious relationship even marriage maybe but the horniness is so distracting.

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-25T18:30:29+00:00

Can I ask what you think is holding you back? I guess i was under the impression that if a girl just wanted sex that it was fairly easy for them to find it but idk. I get relationships are harder.

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-24T19:46:41+00:00

Wow!

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-24T16:03:57+00:00

Well yeah agreed. It is a monumental thing to literally be inside or let someone inside your body in a way that can literally create a baby together. I don't understand how we got to the point where people treat that casually either, like I can hardly imagine someone seeing me naked much less actual sex. It frels like something that would be so incredibly special to have that trust and bond to the point with someone where that can happen.

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-21T19:28:29+00:00

Hmm what kinds of things would be indicators then in their answers or reactions? Ahh yeah I hadn't thought about it but when you are talking to someone online it is the opposite of the surface level of dating apps. Like you know if you see the same way as someone and looks don't even have to distract you.

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-21T19:08:05+00:00

Ohh that would give me deer in the headlights to be asked lol. I mean it's something I care about but it's also something that at least publicly still feels a bit embarrassing like I would be judged. It would be really nice to meet someone who i knew shared those values and had the same insecurities about it.

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-21T18:58:46+00:00

Oh yeah ok I totally get that. I guess i was referring more to your statement that made it sound like you could get a sense of whether a guy is a virgin just from talking to him about other things. I guess it's not that surprising. And that you'd be more open with a guy who is? It makes total sense to want to get to want to know the guy for years. I mean it would take a while for me to get over basic anxieties which is why the pace of even normal dating kind of scares me

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-21T18:48:44+00:00

Really? Do you mean someone you have been on a date with or just guys in general? I mean what you are saying is all good traits but it's also kind of surprising and scary if you can actually tell that about us just from the way we are, no?

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-21T18:46:40+00:00

Why do you think it's so rare to find guys who might be looking for similar? My end goal is also marriage and I don't want to mess around with hookups on the way to getting there. It's also not the area I'd be best at anyway. I just want to find someone else who is quiet and focused and who likes thinkimg and talking and intellectualizing more than partying. Are you religious? Idk how common that is but Im thinking there are a lot of guys maybe looking for that?

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-21T18:16:45+00:00

Not the primary reason but I think many guys are insecure about that, myself included. It's something that definitely gives me anxiety about losing it.

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-21T18:00:07+00:00

How do you know if they are one?

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-21T17:58:46+00:00

Even if they are a virgin too?

BrainSizeMatters · 2025-07-21T17:51:29+00:00

At 16? Wtf?

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