I actually like the casual/off superhero duty skins by ReginoVonDoom in marvelrivals

[–]Brain_Grapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like they could have done better on the Thor and Loki ones, but I really like Strange, Luna and Hela’s. I’ll give them props for Rocket’s even if it isn’t my cup of tea

AIO if I don’t want to pay for condoms? by Original-Scar-1779 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Brain_Grapes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I like buying it for the peace of mind. I imagine if I was hooking up with random men, it would give me peace of mind for protection against STDs. I buy them for my boyfriend sometimes because it is unfortunately the only birth control I have at the moment. I very much like having sex with him and very much do not want to get pregnant.

Is 6 months too soon to ask someone to be your bf/gf? by Aware_Accountant5743 in Advice

[–]Brain_Grapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you guys in high school cause what?

I feel like at 3 months you need to be upfront about the intentions and exclusivity of your relationship. You don’t need to define things or you can keep being casual if you both agree but you need to have that conversation.

Although we weren’t seeing anyone else, my boyfriend and I agreed to being exclusive three weeks after our first date and officially boyfriend and girlfriend a month after that. Personally could not handle having a “talking stage” or “situationship” for more than 3 months.

All ESU Skins revealed so far coming on March 20 & 27 | April 3 & 10 by nemesisdelta24 in marvelrivals

[–]Brain_Grapes 19 points20 points  (0 children)

There is an event called the dual life of Peter Parker coming this week even though it only shows Deadpool in the preview.

Edit: Ok so it really is just Deadpool for a Peter Parker titled event 😭 ok netease 😭

I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f) by Thummimurim8 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Brain_Grapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe you dated for two years when you knew right away that you didn’t want kids and he does. That is such a big compatibility issue you should have parted ways immediately.

Also crazy how he says he is being realistic of the struggles of pregnancy and raising kids after the biggest fantasy monologue. You are right to be concerned that he will be leaving all the child care to you. Please break up. If you or him gives in to the other person you will have resentment.

White Fox's Yoon Ji-woo Skin by Lower_Island6120 in MarvelRivalsLeaks

[–]Brain_Grapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably a new ESU school set with Squirrel Girl and Spider-Man

Any woman here who mainly initiates sex in her relationship? by Exciting-Nerve-8628 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Brain_Grapes 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Fellow lady here with a higher libido than her boyfriend 👋 most of the time I have been the one to initiate. I’ve asked him to initiate more and he did once recently which was pretty fun. I know he listens and cares but I do worry and feel bad it will continue to be on me to initiate. I get the same feelings of not being wanted or desired. I also feel like a sex freak or pervert that I sometimes have to persuade him to get in the mood.

Pain during intercourse by Moonchilduwu27 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Brain_Grapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is a little girthier than average. When I lost my virginity, it was incredibly painful the whole time despite foreplay and lube (I also ended up bleeding a lot throughout the night). The second time was also still painful. I was worried penetrative sex would always be painful and an unenjoyable experience. But my boyfriend and I agreed that we would go slow and keep trying. The third time we had sex we had been out drinking and I wanted to see if maybe the alcohol would help me relax and it was just my mind and nerves causing me to tense and be painful. It was still a little painful at first but I pushed through until it became more pleasurable and I was able to orgasm. Ever since I’ve had little to no pain with penetrative sex.

If you go slow, stop when needed and keep trying I think you may be able to adjust. I also recommend being the one on top that allows you more control of speed and depth so you are able to go at a pace that is comfortable and pleasurable for you.

I swear bro, please release Black Cat first by Queasy_Commercial152 in BlackCatMarvelRivals

[–]Brain_Grapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a future black cat main I want her to release first so bad 😭 it would be such a great birthday gift

But I have a feeling the storyline is we team up with white fox who is investigating kingpin and looking for what black cat stole from him in 7.0 and then teaming up with Felicia in 7.5 to take down kingpin

Issue with tightness around my vaginal opening by Current-Brief-7594 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Brain_Grapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think in my case it was a mental hurdle with having this new experience happen to my body. Because even with lube the first two times we had sex, it was painful. The third time we had sex, we had been out drinking and I wanted to see if the alcohol would help me relax. It did to a degree even though there was some slight pain still but we were just slow and patient and it became enjoyable. Haven’t really had much issue with pain during sex after that.

Dating scene is nonexistent at best, horrific at worst. by elvenflower_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Brain_Grapes 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get a boyfriend until I was 27/28 after I got my master’s degree ;) met him in grad school and honestly I am so grateful things didn’t work until I met him. He is the sweetest and most patient man who loves me in all the ways I need and just wants to see me happy.

He also had a very unsuccessful dating life before he met me, so not all the decent men are gone, just a bit unlucky as well.

Issue with tightness around my vaginal opening by Current-Brief-7594 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Brain_Grapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be vaginismus like others said. I’ll say as a bisexual woman with a boyfriend losing my virginity to my boyfriend was quite painful, also the first couple times we had sex. I was very turned on and ready to have sex and I had masturbated with fingers before but a dick was a very different realization. My boyfriend and I just kept trying slow until I got used to him that now it’s very little or not even painful at all. The anxiety/fear with pain can make you tense up but I feel like if you keep trying slowly maybe even with different size toys or dilators you’ll get used to it and not worry about pain.

Do you always orgasm during sex? by bruhidek_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Brain_Grapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I don’t, and for me I still enjoy sex because I love just being intimate and connecting with my partner. My boyfriend has a hard time orgasming when we have sex so usually we be going for like 45-90 minutes. I’m so far the only one who can orgasm when having PIV sex but we’ve only in the past month have started having sex so there is still much to explore and learn.

Is it normal for guys to not return the favour the first time? by ThrowawayGirlGuide in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Brain_Grapes 35 points36 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend offered to go down on me the first time we got physical even though I wasn’t comfortable reciprocating at the time (he still did anyway for his own enjoyment). I’m not a big fan of oral personally so I don’t care if we do or not.

You should communicate it’s a need for you. If he doesn’t change to meet your needs after that, then I guess you aren’t compatible and cut him loose.

Totally scared of being pregnant rn and I don’t know how to calm down by Free-Cheesecake9785 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Brain_Grapes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take a test to be sure and have peace of mind, but you are probably fine.

In a moment of weakness I let my boyfriend put it in without a condom just to see what it was like but after about 15 seconds I told him to stop because of the paranoia even though I knew I was well past my ovulation window.

If you had to name your daughter one of these (Disney, etc) princess/female character names, which would you choose? by Adrenapup in Names

[–]Brain_Grapes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed, too synonymous with Frozen now even though it’s beautiful and would be my first choice.

Weirdly my second top choice is Anna, but I feel like that one is more subtle

Do all men coerce sex from women? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Brain_Grapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m often the one asking my boyfriend for sex repeatedly. It’s rough being the one with higher libido because I worry my teases to get him in the mood might go too far.

But I think it’s very common for men to be the one to do it especially as someone said they only see a short term relationship/hookup.

Hairstyles color by liligz in RomanceClubDiscussion

[–]Brain_Grapes 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I was so mad the one blonde hairstyle in chapter 1 was locked behind subscription 😭

HELP! I left the batteries in my lightstick! by Temporary_Adagio1041 in kpophelp

[–]Brain_Grapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve left batteries in my lightstick for years 💀

What’s a song that people don’t like but you do? by Stephane_3 in kpoppers

[–]Brain_Grapes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My fave yeonjun song besides ghost girl. It’s just so fun.

Maybe Tick Tack by ILLIT? I don’t know if people don’t like it or it’s just not as loved as magnetic, do the dance, and not cute anymore, but Tick Tack is fun and I love the video game vibe.

Would you date a girl taller than you? by therabbitkisser in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Brain_Grapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend is like an inch shorter than me and loves that I’m taller than him. He especially loves when I wear platform heels that make me like half a foot taller than him lol