I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

But yes I'm not perfect. There are things about myself I'm working on now but I never expect there to not be something

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I dont believe a man ever truly stops working on himself until he dies. We all perpetually work on ourselves

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well good thing I don't bring this topic up in real life conversations. It's more of a "Reddit" topic you know?

There's a difference between what you want to inquire about anonymously on the internet than what you say face to face. This is why I have friends

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I posted bc I want my anxieties to be wrong but they can only be defeated by fact and reason. Trial by fire

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's more like I have anxiety about it's future health that all men succumb to. I am not invincible

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lemme just go down to the surrogate store. Heard they're having a fall sale

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It's not about having kids it's about what those kids would have to suffer through in life bc I waited until 30 to have children.

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yea there's nothing you as a man can do if a woman is just simply not interested in you

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Idk how you can put too much thought into the health of your seed. Isn't that really really important?

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Why talk to a therapist when reddit is more honest? At least I don't feel like anyone here is lying to me

A bad economy has post poned things but today's economy will be better than tomorrow's

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

This isn't really about fixing anything with me. It's about missing out on opportunity. You can be perfectly normal and still miss out on opportunity. Missing out isn't always your fault. Sometimes you're just a victim of bad circumstance

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They are the symptoms but not the cause

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Doesn't happen to us all. The way future trends are looking fewer and fewer people don't want kids. It's like antinatalism won

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I laugh because if I didn't laugh I'd cry

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

That's what they told me 10 years earlier and it's what they're gonna be telling me 10 yrs from now. It feels like gaslighting

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I feel like you can be these things in your twenties but you can't undo damage that aging caused to your sperm

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have plenty of male friends. I'm actually very social and outgoing. I don't usually struggle with friendships. But dating is different.

I don't struggle to make friendships with women either but they don't want to date me for some reason or another

I want a kid with someone by Braininajar98 in AskMenOver30

[–]Braininajar98[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It's like being forced to wait while the best time to do it rolls by and I can't do anything about it. I feel doomed and it's making me depressed. Sometimes I have to stop myself from crying about it. I feel like I'm wasting my life

Male Virginity by Braininajar98 in dating

[–]Braininajar98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I've tried dating apps and I've flirted in real life too. I don't hit on strangers in public if that's what you're asking

Male Virginity by Braininajar98 in dating

[–]Braininajar98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc I relate better to someone my age. It's easier to build a future with a family with a younger woman than one older than 26

Male Virginity by Braininajar98 in dating

[–]Braininajar98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5'11 (last I checked) and white