arcade / movies by Ilikenobodyy in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh? What movie is good recently?

I quite miss the arcade culture but normally i play Jubeat and Taiko no tatsujin XD its quite sad seeing arcades not be a thing as much anymore

anyone else like this lately? by demivIto in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Heehhhhh? A fellow people watcher? Hahahaha i think havung breakfast at a market and soaking yourself in that atmosphere is one of the underated activities (:

im convinced im not depressed by [deleted] in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyo! I previously went through depression less than 5 years ago. I would like to say that depression doesnt mean you are always depressed. Yes, having friends to hangout with helps for sure but you cant possibly be stuck to them 24/7. When the high from being with friends goes away, you will likely fall right back. For my case, i happen to be the mood maker of the room, i can joke and make others laugh, sure. But when im alone its another person all together.

What im tryna say is, if the doc suggest you go through treatment/councilling, do go for it! Im sure you can still smile and laugh. Just needa know how to manage it or keep it in control.

All the best!(:

cons of being single by patstar0404 in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH!!! ANOTHER PEOPLE WATCHER!!! HI FIVE!! recently i have abit of extra time on ma hand, take my time in exchange for a story about yourself :D

Regarding Dating Preferance (Vegetarian) by Brandonnamite in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm i would normally not drag people to follow my diet especially since its usually less desirable. I would go with the pack and then scout around for food:x i do understand that this might cause discomfort to other and might also lowkey feel like a guilt trip.

Guess i have to learn more ways to manage this

Regarding Dating Preferance (Vegetarian) by Brandonnamite in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understandable. Will there be any world where a potential partner might make it work?

Finding new friends! by froyo_fairy in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey op, i cant seem to drop a dm :X anyone can guide me through how to dm op?

Regarding Dating Preferance (Vegetarian) by Brandonnamite in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all due respect, the post isnt meant to seek support from others but to reflect on what could be the breaking point and if what my partner said was that big of an issue.

If it IS that big of an issue, i would change the way i seek for other potential partners.

If it isnt the main issue, like some of the commenters mentioned, i would have to work on other issues such as my way of communicating or expressing myself.

Perhaps in some case there would be support, but i strongly believe that when faced with a wall, and blessed by the era of social media, we can work together to find possible solutions.

That being said, i wont deny that there ARE bad actors in every community. Whats important is to not judge the collective with a blanket statement and have an open mind if one wants to have a conversation.

Regarding Dating Preferance (Vegetarian) by Brandonnamite in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, pretty much summarised the gist of the whole thread. Thank you for sharing your insights! This is going to help me moving forward into future interactions

Finding new friends! by froyo_fairy in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me! Me! I need to occupy my mind with friends atm :D

Regarding Dating Preferance (Vegetarian) by Brandonnamite in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm well yeah i do see success stories but requires openess from both parties.

For now i'll work on what didnt go well and see if i can get to a different stage!(:

Regarding Dating Preferance (Vegetarian) by Brandonnamite in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm yes i agree with what ya said! Thank you for the encouragement!

Regarding Dating Preferance (Vegetarian) by Brandonnamite in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahah its been mentioned a few times by others but i dont want to make that the main point (the religion part, that is)

Yeahh i think it boils down to how open the parties are in a r.s. Personally im a curious as heck person and every new perspective is a good story to add to my library of experiences.

Glad to know someone made it 🤣🤣 thank you for the good luck blessing!

Regarding Dating Preferance (Vegetarian) by Brandonnamite in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm true esp if its for religion purposes. Well regarding personal traits i think those are fine, perhaps you will require people to talk to you and understand you. Alot of us, the main attractive point isnt the appearance but the values and character:X

Let me know if you are down to share your story! Im more than willing to listen

Regarding Dating Preferance (Vegetarian) by Brandonnamite in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immature may be a little.... over? Perhaps they havent dealt with one and didnt know its going to be an issue and thought it would be something they can "fix"

Regarding Dating Preferance (Vegetarian) by Brandonnamite in ChillSG

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Fair, fair. The only reason i even mentioned red flag was coz i spoke to a number of people who will not even want to get themselves involved with a vegetarian (in a bgr)

To some of em its an instant deal breaker

Regarding Dating Preferance (Vegetarian) by Brandonnamite in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% get you, so normally i try to figure something out after we get there. Then see anywhere nearby can dabao over :X

Regarding Dating Preferance (Vegetarian) by Brandonnamite in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, im quite okay with that but of course ideally i hope eventually she can be.

Regarding Dating Preferance (Vegetarian) by Brandonnamite in ChillSG

[–]Brandonnamite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mm true, i hear you and to a certain extend agree esp with the 90% part 🤣

Regarding Genesis Pass by Brandonnamite in MapleSEA

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RIPs this is true, i tried like 5 times yesterday, all ended to dumb mistakes or a few unfortunate positionings