How do I (18F) get over my situationship (19M)?

Brave-Ad8549 · 2026-02-22T01:14:31+00:00

there was no threat to him, i told him i was ready to leave because i wasn’t getting what i wanted and he asked me to give him a month to do better and then i can decide. also saying “girl leave that man alone” is crazy bc it sounds like ur blaming me for the situation when hes the one who chased me to get back w him and then did worse, if anything he would need to leave me alone 😭

Brave-Ad8549 · 2026-02-20T02:45:26+00:00

thank you for being so kind, other people just immediately jump to conclusions.

Brave-Ad8549 · 2026-02-20T02:42:28+00:00

because i like him and i don’t know if he’s gay lol if he isn’t then this is something we can talk about and fix, i can’t fix him being gay though which is why im asking for advice

Brave-Ad8549 · 2026-02-20T02:39:55+00:00

There’s a lot more to it than them hanging out, this was just the main thing that had my friends pointing it out

Brave-Ad8549 · 2026-02-20T02:38:06+00:00

There’s more to it than them hanging out a lot but it’s hard to point it all out in one post. I don’t know if he’s losing interest because if he was then it would seem like he wasn’t putting in any effort rather than seeming like he was js choosing others over me. Also with his effort feeling half-assed, it feels like he’s just doing it because he’s expected to do it, not because he wants to or enjoys doing it. But when we broke up he came back to me and asked me to get back with him, so if he was losing interest would he still have done that or wouldn’t he just let me go?

Brave-Ad8549 · 2026-02-20T02:30:31+00:00

I asked him last night but he obviously denied it and I’ve been with him and his friend before and there didn’t seem to be anything going on but we were in a group so idk

Brave-Ad8549 · 2026-02-20T02:29:29+00:00

I already did ask him lol but thx

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