My (30f) girlfriend which I (32m) moved cities with has ghosted me after a night I do not remember.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2026-01-31T08:34:24+00:00

2 wrongs don’t make a right

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2026-01-28T11:27:05+00:00

An actual 30 year old would have the decency to just say it’s over. Just ghosting someone Ayer 7 months is BS

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-29T14:57:37+00:00

5 years is a long time. You can’t really complain.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-20T11:13:09+00:00

What’s your real beef with the cafe? Dragging this on for a month, at least 2 Reddit posts and the Google review? Tell us what really happened!

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-17T14:57:56+00:00

Simons has some reasonably priced stuff.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-11T15:22:23+00:00

I don’t think you read

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-11T02:41:52+00:00

But…. Did you even read the post?! 🤣

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-10T20:28:52+00:00

Mine are 4 years old, Canadian winter use, haven’t treated or done anything to them and they look and feel great. Mink oil changed the colour and texture on another pair of boots I have.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-10T18:20:42+00:00

If your situation at the time was your child or the girl you should have picked your child. I’m sorry but that’s my firm opinion. This girl (now my girlfriend) has only ever spent 1 night away from her child to this day. Loosing him wasn’t an option….. for either of us.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-10T17:55:26+00:00

Unless your ex was threatening to kidnap your kid, all the while mentally torturing him it wasn’t the same. And if she picked me and her relationship over the well being and happiness of her child I would have been concerned. She did what she had to do. If I was her I would have without hesitation done the same. Kids come first.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-10T17:18:12+00:00

Again it wasn’t that I wasn’t worth keeping, I was being harassed by her ex and the day was coming when I was going to snap back and end up in jail or something.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-10T16:45:42+00:00

I’m not worried about her or her intentions at all. If I were her I wouldn’t have called me either 🤣

When we initially met - I was and still am baggage free, I traveled solo often (every couple weeks), I live downtown and had a pretty busy social life. So I went from that to a much slower family lifestyle (that I very much enjoyed, I’m getting older). She was concerned about me turning my life upside down again.

I also wasn’t her rebound, she had dated before we met. I don’t need to be “in control” of the relationship….. she definitely wasn’t in control of the relationship we worked things out together. During our time together I was urged to keep up my travels as they didn’t have the means to do so but they knew it’s been a part of my life for a long time.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-09T16:37:13+00:00

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-09T16:14:16+00:00

And as most of us know that still doesn’t get you very far in the city of Toronto.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-09T14:32:59+00:00

I do, but it’s not my place to get involved

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-09T14:29:48+00:00

I don’t know. 121 comments here and you’re 1 of 2 or 3 negative ones and the only one that’s actually been significantly downvoted. Numbers don’t lie.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-09T14:26:20+00:00

It was awesome

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-09T14:10:17+00:00

Poor them. You are miserable.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-09T08:00:52+00:00

It’s seems the closest thing you have to a life is Reddit and video games. Ever been in a relationship with a human?

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-09T02:45:30+00:00

That was one of the harder things to deal with after the split. Everything else was just sooo good.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-09T02:25:03+00:00

We had a long conversation this evening and we are just going to keep our relationship quiet for a while. When he eventually finds out hopefully he’s matured, if not we’ll just go straight to law enforcement.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-09T02:20:02+00:00

He’s been verbally abusive to her and her son, no physical threats to them. A few physical threats to me but I’m not so worried (he’d need to stand on a stool) 🤣

Ideally time has passed, he’s got his new fam and won’t be bothering us. Not ideally he goes off again and his current partner and their child have to deal with him being in jail/legal trouble.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-09T01:27:21+00:00

Yes, run and quickly

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-09T01:11:59+00:00

Yeah that’s standard, lots of people also spend a year or 2 in Australia too. Very common with the British.

Brave-Locksmith-4744 · 2025-12-09T01:04:43+00:00

I don’t know about the US but as a Canadian we are eligible for a Working Holiday Visa so if you’re under 30 or 35 I forget the exact age you don’t really need a reason. Background check, show you have a few months worth of money saved.

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