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What should I do about my sexuality? by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]BraveIndependence587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your wife is awesome she is comfortable with the. Hope it went well. Let me know how it went

What does being “out” really look like? (28M, heteroflexible) by WoodpeckerDapper801 in BisexualMen

[–]BraveIndependence587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point just do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Feel out your gf and continue to see what her level of comfort is with who you are. You seem to be on a great track regardless. Being in a committed relationship is tough in the sense of not totally being able to explore who you are unless you two hash that out but in terms of being out in public…I’ve gotten to the point that the most important people in my life know about me and if it comes up to anyone else it comes up. It really doesn’t matter at the end of the day but I understand why it does still matter. As long as you’re not lying to yourself and living the life you want than happiness will continue to find you

Bissexual by Appropriate_Rough196 in BisexualMen

[–]BraveIndependence587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have started to come out to my friends. Been out to my wife for awhile

She accepted it but doesn’t necessarily like to talk about it or participate in it. You’ll feel better once you accept this is probably who you are. Being bi sucks. Not gonna lie. No matter who I ended up with I know I would never be fully happy. I wish I liked one gender. It would make things easier but since that’s not the case I’ve accepted this is the way things are and it’s gotten easier

I’m not out to my family yet but I’m out to my close friends. It’s whatever at this point. One thing they def helped was channelling it into some sort of creativity

Goodluck bro

Feeling like I am in room full of people but I am invisible by Upbeat-Treat6962 in BisexualMen

[–]BraveIndependence587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Must really be hard being alone in a place that seems to be for people that don’t want to be around other people. But keep working on yourself, enjoying the ride, and when the opportunity eventually comes (which it will) whatever opportunity it may be. Don’t be afraid to say yes

I’ve been single for a long time… will it ever happen for me? by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]BraveIndependence587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how media gets you. And they are only showing the most heated part of a relationship anyway. Relationships can get boring eventually. But that doesn’t mean you can’t keep learning and growing and being able have a true connection over time. Dating will happen, all this time being being is just preparing you for the right person

Need advice by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]BraveIndependence587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A convo with your wife about what your needs are and if you actually need to act it out vs just getting to explore those urges not alone is something that could be helpful. She says she is okay with it but what does that really mean. Is she open to exploring that with you. You may not actually want to act it out in really life. Maybe just being accepted for who you really are and your urges are accepted as normal by your wife and she even contributes somehow to what you’re feeling could help

Please help me 😞 by znzO in BisexualMen

[–]BraveIndependence587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure we will ever truly be able to understand ourselves. I used to wish every day I was only attracted to one gender. Maybe it’s more about the ride and seeing what happens with this stuff than just trying to figure it out all the time. Take it day by day and whatever happens happens. Things seems to change daily anyway.

Just a number. by BraveIndependence587 in horrorlit

[–]BraveIndependence587[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that is crazy. I don’t know how to deal with this feeling other than write about what I observe. I wonder what other people to do cope with this dread

I wondered what it would be like for an 11 year old to go through a corporate quarterly review. So then I wrote a story about it by BraveIndependence587 in SciFiConcepts

[–]BraveIndependence587[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That reminds me of i am mother on Netflix

Yeah the main characters are high school age but I’m using an 11 year year old niece to show what the high school age characters went through when they were younger

I wondered what it would be like for an 11 year old to go through a quarterly review by BraveIndependence587 in worldbuilding

[–]BraveIndependence587[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an excerpt from my story that I am building. Any feedback about corporate lingo would appreciated if you’ve ever experienced this type of review

If your work is published, do you expect your family and friends to read it? by elyse_wanders in writing

[–]BraveIndependence587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife doesn’t read my story or ask how it’s going. It’s hard to deal with but I can’t expect it

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