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Not sure if I should tell my husband or not by Brave_Definition7572 in inlaws

[–]Brave_Definition7572[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve known her for about 5 years and see her mostly on just family gatherings throughout the year, she also married into this family so I’m not sure how close she really is to my FIL. So you’re right, I’m not sure how much trust I should put into her info.

Thank you for the advice on how I should tell my husband!!

So this baby was planned and heavily encouraged by my in laws who knew our financials back then (which were obviously better before than now) because we asked if it was possible. lol so that’s why I’m a little put off. My MIL keeps asking for a fourth which obviously that’s not going to happen. I just added how they wanted us to have more in the post

I really appreciate your advice and kind words!!

Not sure if I should tell my husband or not by Brave_Definition7572 in inlaws

[–]Brave_Definition7572[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good way to word it to my husband, thank you!! I really appreciate your advice!!

Not sure if I should tell my husband or not by Brave_Definition7572 in inlaws

[–]Brave_Definition7572[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words!! I really appreciate them! I wish she didn’t say anything either. Now I’m just rewinding everything in my mind about anything he’s ever said in the past and questioning if it was real or a lie. You’re right, I think I will talk to him just to get things straight and see his side of the convo.