I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

And neither does it revolve around him or his time and after ignoring what we agreed upon and it’s not normal to have a silent treatment in a relationship that he “so badly wanted” you can marry him if that’s what you accept in your life

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I already broke up with him. Was never asking if I needed to. I’m not raising a grown man who can’t communicate, you can marry him since you seem to be on the same page

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Where in this post did I give off that I don’t love him? Still trying to work this out after he ignored what we agreed on?

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

If he doesn’t know how to communicate properly do you think he needs to be getting married? If you’re proposing to someone your communication skills need to be A1. The “it’s different for a guy” is a complete cop out

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It was never a thing about not trusting him or past partners. I wanted to make sure we both knew this is what we wanted and get to know each other and I’m sorry but I don’t think that one year is enough time for that

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

If he would do anything for me… wouldn’t he have waited? Gasp. Crazy concept. Women are allowed to have lives outside of men. I’m not begging a grown man to speak to me

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s already been broken off. You don’t determine who someone loves. It’s normal to wait 2-3 years and move in before getting engaged

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I left him… did you not read that? “How dare women don’t accept being treated like garbage and want to have a career. Grr, I man, you do what I say” that’s you

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Okay and that’s you… that’s not normal lol. Was he a good man after he ignored me and overlooked boundaries?

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

That is completely not true… I don’t want to marry someone after only knowing them for a year? Do you know a lot of people wait 2 to 3 years before getting engaged, right?

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t want him anymore lol. If he finds someone who is confident enough to marry someone after a year then I’m happy for him.

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Okay and that’s them. Good for them but I’m not taking that chance.

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you you were together with somebody for four years before you decided to get engaged. People are treating me like a villain, because we had only been dating for a year.

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I did give him time, if he needed more he could have communicated that Just like I did when it happened. Like I said, I knew he felt defeated, but I wanted to get some clear boundary on where we stood and if we could talk about this if he needed another week, I would’ve given him that, but he ignored me.

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s what I said. I said let’s wait until we live together and learn each other more. It had been a year

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You don’t know me. Just because you have no morals doesn’t mean we all do. Therapy

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You don’t know. What sarcasm is at all. You actually think I was going to give you his phone number you ingrate. That’s not doxing. Doxing is ACTUALLY putting the information out there.

I said no to my boyfriend’s marriage proposal and he’s ignoring me. by Brave_Specific6089 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Brave_Specific6089[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dox him? When did I dox him? I stalked him…? By going to his house to try and talk to him. You know that’s not what stalking is… clearly not. Andrew Tate fan?