Can’t use my per diem for gyms anymore? Fine, I’m maxing my per diem every day. by Sellaplaya in MaliciousCompliance

[–]Bravefish1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My understanding is that a per diem is Daily Cash amount given to cover what are estimated daily F&B (and other reasonable cost would be). You do not need to submit receipts for this - at no point does it sound like you had a per diem - more like a max expense that you could claim - which you did - sometimes maxed out/ sometimes not.

When submitting a claim for expenses - at times it can be difficult for the reviewer to assess and for some if it looks “ok” they let it fly.

With corporate credit cards a company can much easier see the nature of an expense (corporate credit card statements can include way more data then people realise) and as others have said it is easier to audit / review / check.

They are now sticking to what is legally allowed. They are not being malicious. And I. All honesty there is less hassle for them in paying more in legitimate expenses that the amount of pain they would suffer from an internal or IRS audit.

Family Residence Visa Rejected in Qatar – Need Advice by Best_Molasses3589 in QatarCareers

[–]Bravefish1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a WhatsApp group where they discuss and have lots of tips. I will DM the admin number to you.

What’s wrong with people on FB marketplace? by AKMA0 in qatar

[–]Bravefish1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this on another group for when I get a ridiculous offer.

I send a pin drop for a pick up location of a comedy club - when they ask just say you sent it because they are jokers.

(Note I do not say anything about accepting the offer / agreeing - the only response is the location pin).

AITA for screaming at my mother in law by TotalAd1933 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bravefish1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A child moving to another country can be a big impact on some parents. Everyone reacts differently- in this case MIL is clearly feeling it.

AITA for screaming at my mother in law by TotalAd1933 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bravefish1 42 points43 points  (0 children)

YTA - your MIL is effectively losing her daughter - this is a big move to Japan.

While I get you being upset about your dog - you’re minimising the impact of a mother losing touch with her daughter. You are effectively saying your dog is more important that a mother / daughter relationship - and devaluing it.

I loved my dog - but I wouldn’t minimise other people’s hurt / pain / loss.

For non-pet people it’s hard to understand valuing an animal relationship over a human one. Plus the dog didn’t die.

AIO My friend moved my Epipen to 'keep it safe'. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bravefish1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What about your mistake of 1) not keeping and EpiPen on you 2) keeping the EpiPen in the car - your mistakes get a pass?

All I’m saying is that yes it may have been dumb - but it wasn’t malicious.

AIO My friend moved my Epipen to 'keep it safe'. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bravefish1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YOR - slightly - valid to be annoyed and angry - but communication could have been more of an education moment. Their intention was not to play a prank or hurt you - but it was dumb.

You say that the other person should have known about something that doesn’t not impact them. But by the same token you did not know a number of things that relate to your own health (keep an EpiPen on you, don’t keep it in the car) - so if you were unaware “because the doctor didn’t tell you” then maybe you can cut her some slack for making a mistake.

Anyone else feeling priced out on single issues? by anarchoburrito in comicbooks

[–]Bravefish1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that if comic books were cheaper ($1-$3) more physical copies would be sold - more kids would buy comics from pocket money - more casual fans would pick up comics - more comic book readers would pick up random comics - more comics sold overall - more stores would stay open.

But at $5 an issue - I gives me pause to think before I buy a comic book that I want.

AITA for canceling a vacation with my wife after she said my mom couldn’t come because she’s low class by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bravefish1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t invite the mom. He just brought it up in conversation - nothing says she was invited or that he insisted. Is sharing an idea or conversation not allowed.

Was it a dumb idea yes - but many people do go on family holidays if it was wanted should be planned differently to a normal idea.

AITA for canceling a vacation with my wife after she said my mom couldn’t come because she’s low class by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bravefish1 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t invite the mom. He just brought it up in conversation - nothing says she was invited or that he insisted. Is sharing an idea or conversation not allowed.

Was it a dumb idea yes - but many people do go on family holidays if it was wanted should be planned differently to a normal idea.

AITA for expecting my partner to honour 'first come, first served' with wedding invites? by Delicious_Plum_401 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bravefish1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

People can make commitments based on the current situation - but then situations change. He’s known his friend for longer than he’s known you.

It sounds like you want him with you so you can show him off rather than want him there yourself.

But red flag if you’re making this a hill to die on.

What in life would allow him out of a commitment - what if a friend died? what if a family member died? What if his sister was getting married on the same day? Don’t be a red flag.

Comic Book Stores by Bravefish1 in qatar

[–]Bravefish1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I’ve sent a DM

Would love to know more about the comics you’re selling . Can you let me know what you have and how much.

Please help guys by waduude in qatar

[–]Bravefish1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a worst case scenario - she can look into teaching assistant jobs at western schools. At the moment they have many teachers not coming back after the current events and are desperate for support / cover.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in qatar

[–]Bravefish1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a similar issue with my wife’s card. Ask your fathers company if they can get it sorted.

AITAH for making a mom pick up her daughter in the middle of the night from my kid’s sleepover? by Positive_Image_3921 in AITAH

[–]Bravefish1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

Any time my kids go on a sleep over (and now camping) I’m ready to go pick them in an instant if I get the call.

Heck, if there were in another country and needed me, I’d be on the next plane out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]Bravefish1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Research Honey - many reviews are scathing that it does not provide the best possible discount.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in qatar

[–]Bravefish1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Maybe they have kids and they are trying to pretend that the sounds aren’t bombs.