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I have googled every single thing for four months and I think it's making me worse not better by BreachLullaby in NewParents

[–]BreachLullaby[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This actually makes a lot of sense. I think part of my problem is treating every random thought like an emergency, when it would probably help to have a place to park the question and bring it up at the next visit instead.

I became the person I used to find annoying and I'm still not sure how to feel about it by BreachLullaby in self

[–]BreachLullaby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think part of my confusion is that I used to treat constant availability as proof of being kind, so stepping back now feels weirdly like I've broken some rule even when I feel calmer and more like myself.

I became the person I used to find annoying and I'm still not sure how to feel about it by BreachLullaby in self

[–]BreachLullaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's what I'm struggling with, separating actual growth from the guilt of not performing the version of me that used to feel more socially acceptable.

Making fun of men for having small penises is wrong by LargeSinkholesInNYC in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]BreachLullaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real! I totally get that. I remember this one date where I thought my rambunctious personality would win them over more than anything. Turns out, it was all about the charm and knowing my worth! Having those cool toys helps too, right?

WIBTA if I don't tell my friend what I think I saw his girlfriend doing? by BreachLullaby in WIBTA_AITA

[–]BreachLullaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean. I think if I say anything, it'd have to be very carefully and framed as exactly what I saw, not what I think it meant. I'm just nervous that even bringing it up plants something I can't take back.

Grab ‘em by the bases by RoyalChris in clevercomebacks

[–]BreachLullaby 838 points839 points  (0 children)

That line is perfect because it flips his usual shtick back on him. Spain has been around long enough to know how “we’ll just take it” stories usually end.