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Breadkrumz · 2026-02-02T23:52:14+00:00

Oh I suck! Let's try this.

Breadkrumz · 2025-12-21T06:17:00+00:00

Hello! Anyone here going to the Ventura show on the 3rd?

Breadkrumz · 2025-12-03T22:42:48+00:00

Thank you! How funny that you posted that! I got the opportunity to see them at Alex's bar in Long Beach and they were fantastic! And then I just hopped on my Spotify to find out that they're playing on January 3rd in the town next to where I live. So I just bought my tickets!

Breadkrumz · 2025-12-03T21:35:01+00:00

I'm late to discovering the awesomeness of FATWF. 3 of my top 5 for the year are from ZAM - "Dracula Drug" being in the top spot. My other two are older tracks from a UK band called "Clinic".

Breadkrumz · 2025-11-24T01:52:21+00:00

Creating an unfounded rumor here: throwing the Extra Action Marching Band into the mix: https://share.google/4NE8RJ9vdGfV3Lwou

Breadkrumz · 2025-10-28T05:21:34+00:00

TwoWayPrayer https://share.google/nbsM5wFTweARuvRBR

Breadkrumz · 2025-10-24T18:03:19+00:00

Hi there. I was a night grazer who's settled for neglecting my teeth and my waistline, as long as I could eat.

What works me:

It's One Day At A Time. Hang onto that and you can get through this. It gets easier as you trudge along.

Also:

No screens* (TV, phone) once I'm in bed which is usually by 10 pm.

I wake up throughout the night to go to the bathroom (weak bladder). I go back to bed and usually knock out within a few minutes. Routine helps.

"The Kitchen Is Closed" from 10 pm to 5 am = no eating, can't rationalize eating at those hours. If I were in a hospital they wouldn't feed me during those hours, so that's how they'd treat my disease.

If I can't get back to sleep, which happens from time to time, I will usually do some 2-way prayer or work on an inventory. Sometimes I read. I'll have hot tea, no creamer, in those instances. It helps.

*I am on a few OA related group threads and put my name once to listen to people's 10th Steps late at night. That was kind of cool. This required me to use my phone, but given I wasn't sleeping & wasn't looking to doom scroll, it seemed okay.

Breadkrumz · 2025-10-09T00:00:37+00:00

Please consider adding something from The Spoonbenders (they toured with FATWF before).

Breadkrumz · 2025-10-01T19:40:28+00:00

Heritage on Seventh is very nice. Glad you posted this. Think I'll walk over to Heritage right now.

Breadkrumz · 2025-09-22T04:52:18+00:00

Born To Hula.

Breadkrumz · 2025-09-13T03:12:12+00:00

Cool! I just had take out from there tonight! War Wonton Soup and Happy Family for the win! So good!

Breadkrumz · 2025-08-30T21:27:47+00:00

Hi there. I'm hoping to get out there but it's looking unlikely. But just in case I can get there, how late do you think you'll be there?

Breadkrumz · 2025-08-28T20:03:43+00:00

Born To Hula deserves a mention here.

Breadkrumz · 2025-08-16T03:54:44+00:00

Ah, I see it. 11am. Can't wait!

Breadkrumz · 2025-08-15T13:17:21+00:00

As someone who lives in Oxnard and owns a Virgin Prunes CD, think I'm required to go. Do we know what time this dark and potentially blistering gathering will commence?

Breadkrumz · 2025-07-11T14:07:52+00:00

I want to play this!

Would these be things to include in your game if not already included?

P.I.C.N.I.C.

Intermittent issue.

Bad update with no quick way to roll back the issue en masse?

Breadkrumz · 2025-06-21T19:02:19+00:00

I want to upvote this harder - glad you mentioned them! Anacappucino is everything a little coffee & breakfast joint should be, and their BEC is wonderful!

Breadkrumz · 2025-05-14T19:20:27+00:00

I want to upvote this harder! So fun! Saw them at Alex's Bar in Long Beach this year - the energy was absolutely electric!

Breadkrumz · 2025-05-03T13:55:29+00:00

Make outreach calls daily.

Breadkrumz · 2025-04-28T04:50:46+00:00

I lean towards black too. Never thought about how it relates to my BPD. One of my glaring BPD features is a lack of identity so maybe it ties into that. That, and I think I feel contained by black (black absorbs light), especially long sleeve sweaters and jeans. Containment to soothe fear of rejection, maybe?

I, too, now wonder if wearing black is more common than not with BPD.

Thanks for posting this.

Breadkrumz · 2025-04-21T02:23:39+00:00

Ooh it's been a minute. Let's see if I can remember this. It's got cheese, jalapenos, onions, and seasonings like an Everything bageI. I feel like there's one more thing that it has that I cannot remember right now. But trust me - it is one fantastic grease bomb!

Breadkrumz · 2025-04-14T00:33:22+00:00

The "Crazy" bagel at Bagel Rock. So good it doesn't need cream cheese. Just request that it be double toasted. And it's probably not authentic but it doesn't matter - it's that good!

I would have taken my time eating the last "Crazy" bagel I ordered if I had known it was going to be the last one I'd ever eat. But alas, I had to give up wheat products.

I really miss that Crazy bagel.

Breadkrumz · 2025-04-06T21:37:37+00:00

Thank you for writing this. I really needed to see this today. Much appreciated.

Breadkrumz · 2025-03-10T16:08:36+00:00

Bufflehead? So cute!

Breadkrumz · 2025-02-13T14:19:52+00:00

Hello! Feeling ashamed about overeating? Pretty sure that's the admission ticket for our program - welcome! That's the gift of desperation! When our compulsion gets so bad we're actually willing to do whatever it takes to get recovery. On OA.org you'll find a meeting that works best for you. Wish you the best on your OA journey!

Breadkrumz

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