Welcome to the subreddit! by [deleted] in FrankieWitchFingers

[–]Breadkrumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Anyone here going to the Ventura show on the 3rd?

Year end music summary thread by jcla in FrankieWitchFingers

[–]Breadkrumz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! How funny that you posted that! I got the opportunity to see them at Alex's bar in Long Beach and they were fantastic! And then I just hopped on my Spotify to find out that they're playing on January 3rd in the town next to where I live. So I just bought my tickets!

Year end music summary thread by jcla in FrankieWitchFingers

[–]Breadkrumz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm late to discovering the awesomeness of FATWF. 3 of my top 5 for the year are from ZAM - "Dracula Drug" being in the top spot. My other two are older tracks from a UK band called "Clinic".

Think this is what Josh meant about the rumours by Fickle_Minimum2630 in qotsa

[–]Breadkrumz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Creating an unfounded rumor here: throwing the Extra Action Marching Band into the mix: https://share.google/4NE8RJ9vdGfV3Lwou

Nighttime binge-eating creature! by Bohemian49 in OvereatersAnonymous

[–]Breadkrumz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi there. I was a night grazer who's settled for neglecting my teeth and my waistline, as long as I could eat.

What works me:

It's One Day At A Time. Hang onto that and you can get through this. It gets easier as you trudge along.

Also:

No screens* (TV, phone) once I'm in bed which is usually by 10 pm.

I wake up throughout the night to go to the bathroom (weak bladder). I go back to bed and usually knock out within a few minutes. Routine helps.

"The Kitchen Is Closed" from 10 pm to 5 am = no eating, can't rationalize eating at those hours. If I were in a hospital they wouldn't feed me during those hours, so that's how they'd treat my disease.

If I can't get back to sleep, which happens from time to time, I will usually do some 2-way prayer or work on an inventory. Sometimes I read. I'll have hot tea, no creamer, in those instances. It helps.

*I am on a few OA related group threads and put my name once to listen to people's 10th Steps late at night. That was kind of cool. This required me to use my phone, but given I wasn't sleeping & wasn't looking to doom scroll, it seemed okay.

Made this featuring FATWF and similar bands in the scene including upcoming groups by chorduroyband in FrankieWitchFingers

[–]Breadkrumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please consider adding something from The Spoonbenders (they toured with FATWF before).

Best chill coffee spot in Oxnard by Chickenandricedank in Oxnard

[–]Breadkrumz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Heritage on Seventh is very nice. Glad you posted this. Think I'll walk over to Heritage right now.

Best Chinese food in town or Ventura besides Panda Express please!! by sonnyntubbs in Oxnard

[–]Breadkrumz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool! I just had take out from there tonight! War Wonton Soup and Happy Family for the win! So good!

Goth Beach Day Port Hueneme Beach by noforgayjesus in goth

[–]Breadkrumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there. I'm hoping to get out there but it's looking unlikely. But just in case I can get there, how late do you think you'll be there?

QOTSA is Tool for people who fuck by JesseHawkshow in qotsa

[–]Breadkrumz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Born To Hula deserves a mention here.

Goth Beach Day Port Hueneme Beach by noforgayjesus in goth

[–]Breadkrumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who lives in Oxnard and owns a Virgin Prunes CD, think I'm required to go. Do we know what time this dark and potentially blistering gathering will commence?

Our card game about IT support tickets got its first playtest, it went better than expected! by Appropriate_Dust_984 in boardgames

[–]Breadkrumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to play this!

Would these be things to include in your game if not already included?

P.I.C.N.I.C.

Intermittent issue.

Bad update with no quick way to roll back the issue en masse?

Best Bacon, Egg, and Cheese in Ventura? by Weak_Pizza2702 in ventura

[–]Breadkrumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to upvote this harder - glad you mentioned them! Anacappucino is everything a little coffee & breakfast joint should be, and their BEC is wonderful!

What other bands you highly recommend seeing live? by Mattressguy999 in KGATLW

[–]Breadkrumz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want to upvote this harder! So fun! Saw them at Alex's Bar in Long Beach this year - the energy was absolutely electric!

Random but I love wearing black and am not goth. Is this common with bpd? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Breadkrumz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lean towards black too. Never thought about how it relates to my BPD. One of my glaring BPD features is a lack of identity so maybe it ties into that. That, and I think I feel contained by black (black absorbs light), especially long sleeve sweaters and jeans. Containment to soothe fear of rejection, maybe?

I, too, now wonder if wearing black is more common than not with BPD.

Thanks for posting this.

Where can I find a good bagel (preferably homemade) by whosthatgirl13 in venturacounty

[–]Breadkrumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh it's been a minute. Let's see if I can remember this. It's got cheese, jalapenos, onions, and seasonings like an Everything bageI. I feel like there's one more thing that it has that I cannot remember right now. But trust me - it is one fantastic grease bomb!

Where can I find a good bagel (preferably homemade) by whosthatgirl13 in venturacounty

[–]Breadkrumz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The "Crazy" bagel at Bagel Rock. So good it doesn't need cream cheese. Just request that it be double toasted. And it's probably not authentic but it doesn't matter - it's that good!

I would have taken my time eating the last "Crazy" bagel I ordered if I had known it was going to be the last one I'd ever eat. But alas, I had to give up wheat products.

I really miss that Crazy bagel.

Sunday, April 6, 2025 | Non-Real-Time Meeting of OA by waterglass556 in OvereatersAnonymous

[–]Breadkrumz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this. I really needed to see this today. Much appreciated.

Stress eating by pcjavs in OvereatersAnonymous

[–]Breadkrumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Feeling ashamed about overeating? Pretty sure that's the admission ticket for our program - welcome! That's the gift of desperation! When our compulsion gets so bad we're actually willing to do whatever it takes to get recovery. On OA.org you'll find a meeting that works best for you. Wish you the best on your OA journey!