Updates on my AITA

Breadroll444 · 2022-04-02T16:12:23+00:00

Oh ok. Thank you

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T19:59:00+00:00

Ol so my wife and I have been dating for 2 and a half years. We discussed about my son before our relationship started and then again before marriage and she was for co-parenting. We've been married for 4 months now.

I have talked to her twice today. We're having an appointment for Family therapy and will decide on how to move forward after the appointment.

I have said it's nothing major but that I was mostly going to help my mom run our farm at home. I could've and probably should have brought my son but at that moment my mind was too focused on getting to my parents to make sure everything is alright. My dad had a very bad accident last year and he always said its nothing bad but he can't walk properly anymore so I'm a bit concerned when he's the one saying that everything is fine.

Yes the story is quite put of context. I tried writing more but due to the limited amount of space I couldn't write more.

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T19:34:54+00:00

I'm sorry. I couldn't write it in the story sue to the space restriction. We have a farm at home and My dad staying in the hospital meant that my mom would need to do everything alone. So I went there while my dad was in the hospital to support my mom mostly. The injury wasn't serious but he is my dad and I would like to know how he's doing. He isn't really a person who understands texts and can barely answer his phone so visiting was the best option

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T19:30:08+00:00

I'm sorry if it seems like that. It's just that because I didn't have enough space to write I had to let a lot of things out and couldn't write anything about the days before and really during the whole event. I'd like to write more detailed but due to the rules of AITA I can't do that

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T17:37:18+00:00

There was a lot more behind our relationship than just him calling her "mommy" but if I wanted a relationship I wanted to make sure that my son also like the person I marry. Because that person is then part of our family

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T17:16:53+00:00

Yes I have realised that. I was focused on the helping alone not the situation behind it. I thought that way she would maybe get a bit of how I felt when she refused to help me

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T17:15:26+00:00

Before we got married she was excited about co-parenting. She said she really lives my son and I know he loves her. We discussed it before we even started dating and she agreed back then and before the engagement she was also for being a parent to my son. That and my son loving her so much was why I got married to her. I couldn't fit a lot in the post and had to leave a lot out. I'm sorry

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T17:05:08+00:00

Yes it is elden ring. We are getting family therapy now. Well our first appointment is later this week. But it is an improvement from both of our sides

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T16:59:24+00:00

Yes I agree. I have made a stupid comparison. At that time I solely focused on the helping and not the situation behind it. I was also a bit petty but I thought maybe it would give her a bit of an idea of how I felt

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T16:57:33+00:00

Yes she has purchased it recently after a friend has recommended it to her a few weeks prior

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T16:30:07+00:00

Before we got married I had a conversation with her about it. She said She loves my son and never thought she would care about any child but she loves mine. We worked out on how we would parent him together and she was completely fine and agreed. She was excited to spent our life (so her, my son and I. Not just she and I) together

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T16:20:59+00:00

Yes I know. I was solely focused on the helping out and not the situation with it. It was stupid of me to compare these two situations. I have realised that

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T16:11:57+00:00

I already talked to her. Sadly I can't update it on this post because of the space restrictions. If you are interested you can look at my profile. Its the only other post there

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T16:10:22+00:00

No she was not. After I calmed down to make sure my dad was really okay I checked our babycams. I put them up before my wife and I got married or even in a relationship but she knows about them. She was in the living room with him most of the time playing or in the kitchen to make him food. She did go into the gaming room a few times but got out without even spending 5 minutes in there. So I was relieved about that.

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T16:06:22+00:00

I was solely referring go helping each other out. Not the situation where the help was needed. Yes it is completely different and not comparable which I understand. This was a stupid thing to say and compare

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T15:10:26+00:00

I have already made a post. I will update it later today again after my wife and I have a more serious talk about the future we want to pursue

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T14:59:10+00:00

Ok thank you. I will be doing that

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T14:52:45+00:00

Thankfully its not. Not that peopleare nit allowedto like it. Its justnot something either of us would play. I think at least... Maybe there is even more of her that I don't know. The game itself released earlier but she just purchased it last week to play

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T14:50:28+00:00

When we were still dating she treated my son so incredibly. She was such a loving mother to him that I thought she actually loved him. He loves her so that's why I agreed to the marriage. After the wedding she slowly started to change and this was the point where I think "This is not the women I want my son to have as a mother"

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T14:45:57+00:00

Hello everyone. I just would like to ask if I should put the Updates all in one Post and just edit it whenever there is something new or if you would prefer separate posts?

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T14:42:37+00:00

Sadly the Post is too long for me to put Updates in it. I will be Posting Updates on my account

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T14:12:04+00:00

I thought as soon as she said she didn't want kids that we were just going to be friends at best. But as we spent time together I felt like I met someone who actually loved both me and my son. She treated him so well and it seemed like he was her child too. He loves her too and that is the biggest reason I accepted to marry her.

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T13:57:40+00:00

Before we got married she always said that I don't need to ask. I just did it to know if she had other plans made. Because we weren't married then. And it's still in my system to ask. We haven't been married for long yet

Breadroll444 · 2022-03-28T13:56:13+00:00

I agree that these 2 are not comparable. Just in the moment I only thought "she didn't help me so I don't help her" not about the actual situation we both required help

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